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HELP! I need your support!

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DottyDooRidesAgain · 05/07/2014 01:09

I have copied and pasted my original post along with the reply from Amy.

A guest speaker/poster/professional?

I am part of a thread discussing historical/personal accounts of sexual abuse and rape.
A few posters have posted about their negative experiences with the police. Obviously this is distressing and should never have happened to them but it does concern me that somebody reading the thread may be put off reporting a sex crime to the police.
Most of the posters on that thread have cited reasons for not reporting and not being believed/badly treated by the police was one of them.

I wonder if it would be possible for MNHQ to have a sexual abuse/rape officer do a blog or Q & A session where the process of reporting a sex crime can be discussed along with how the victim can expect to be treated. I just feel this maybe be a positive step towards people feeling they can report a sex crime and that they will be treated with dignity and respect no matter if it was a stranger/lover/husband or family member.

If MNHQ have already covered this then I apologise, I'm relatively new to the site.

Many thanks

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amyMumsnet France (MNHQ) Fri 04-Jul-14 17:24:27

Hi Dotty,

Starting a thread in site stuff is the best way to make a request. If it looks like there's a lot of interest in a certain guest then we'll do our best to get them to come along.

If you agree that this would be helpful and supportive can you please add your comments.

Many thanks Smile

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Northumberlandlass · 08/07/2014 13:11

This is an excellent idea. in support !

WildEyedAndHairier · 08/07/2014 13:16

Great idea, I would also welcome the same for DV.

DottyDooRidesAgain · 08/07/2014 13:23

Thank you so much guys Grin

You really are an amazing bunch of people Grin

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captainmummy · 08/07/2014 13:26

Good for you Dotty - I'm jsut surprised that MN want you to jump through these hoops first. Surely once the idea was raised someone at MNtowers should have said 'great idea let's do it' ??

DottyDooRidesAgain · 08/07/2014 13:34

I assumed that if they did it as a Q & A they needed to make sure there was enough interest so the poor person wasn't sat there with a blank screen. Confused

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PoirotsMoustache · 08/07/2014 14:33

Brilliant idea. I wish there had been something like that available when I needed it. I completely support it.

GrouchyKiwi · 08/07/2014 15:02

Great idea.

FatalCabbage · 08/07/2014 16:02

Most Q&As and webchats are with someone plugging something whereas here MNHQ would be approaching busy organisations. Being able to point them at a pages-long thread of support for the idea, and the inspiratiol "why we didn't report" thread, would be more persuasive, I'd have thought, than Justine saying please. Even more persuasive, I should say.

FatalCabbage · 08/07/2014 16:02

Most Q&As and webchats are with someone plugging something whereas here MNHQ would be approaching busy organisations. Being able to point them at a pages-long thread of support for the idea, and the inspiratiol "why we didn't report" thread, would be more persuasive, I'd have thought, than Justine saying please. Even more persuasive, I should say.

DottyDooRidesAgain · 12/07/2014 14:54

Hello MNHQ

I am closing my account but I really really want this to happen as I think it would be of great use and support.

I am sure you will go with it if you can Grin

Just wanted to say a massive thank you to everyone who has supported this.Flowers

Take care xxx

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