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Come and talk to us (and Gransnetters) about the perimenopause

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RowanMumsnet · 23/05/2014 09:55

Hello

As most of you will know, we've got a sister site, Gransnet, which recently celebrated its third birthday Cake.

GNers have a wealth of experience in areas that some MNers may only just be starting to think about, or experience personally, and we thought it might be interesting (and, hopefully, fun Grin) to open up a conversation between the members of the two sites on some of these topics.

One issue that leapt out at us (or, perhaps more accurately, sidled up to us gradually as we entered the prime of life) is the perimenopause: a period of time before and after the transition into the menopause, when women may start to experience symptoms such as irregular periods, sleeplessness, changes in sex drive and vaginal dryness/itching, emotional ups and downs and so on. (Or may not, of course!)

Lots of GNers have been there and done that so far as the menopause is concerned, so we thought this might be a useful opportunity for MNers to ask some them any questions you may have, and for members of both sites to share some experience, hard-won knowledge and support.

Of course there will be MNers who know lots about the menopause and perimenopause, and GNers who have yet to experience either, so feel free to ask, answer, or both.

There's a parallel thread running on Gransnet; we'll cross-post some questions and answers between the two, but do get yourself a Gransnet log-in and pop over to say hello if you fancy it.

So... what have you always wanted to know about the perimenopause, but have been too afraid to ask?

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ab987 · 21/06/2014 13:37

50 is there any reason why you won't consider HRT- it will solve all those problems you are having.

blossommy · 22/06/2014 17:27

does hrt actually help with the mental health probs like depression and anxiety - or is it more beneficial for things like hot flushes?

TheFarSide · 22/06/2014 22:50

Re HRT, does it not just postpone all the symptoms?

50 - everything you are going through I seem to be going through too.

50KnockingonabiT · 24/06/2014 12:30

Thanks for replying:)

I haven't looked into HRT, I should do some research.

Forgot to mention the lack of sleep too, as if I haven't enough to contend with. I think I'd have a better outlook if I wasn't so damn tired all the time.

Far, you have my sympathy, it's flipping hard work:(

RowanMumsnet · 07/07/2014 10:03

Just popping back to say thanks very much for all the comments, questions and input from MNers and GNers on here - we think it was a really useful and interesting discussion and hope you do too. There does seem to be an appetite for more information and support on this area.

We'll be thinking about possible other collaborations with GN soon so please watch this space.

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Danielle2017 · 03/11/2017 20:03

I am 46 years old. I got my period and once my period ended it turned to staining now for 17/18 days. So basically in 17/18 days I have been having a period or staining. So its day 17/18 and I believe my staining turned back to a period again. Had a sono done 6 months ago with good lining. Went to obgyn and he said he thought it was hormonal and not cancer but worried. He was waiting to do a sono until things calmed down. Any experience you have had would be helpful and appreciated!

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