Cum Control 2026

[ladymichelleZ]

Last year there was a post discussing how often male partners masturbated in between partner sex together and some couples who like to limit this, which touched on some elements of male chastity.

We got interested in this as a turn on for us and as some kinky fun. Are other couples into this at all? The timing is interesting as there is Locktober coming up in this community.

There's a theory that says masturbating regularly within a relationship quells the desire to have sex where as abstinence increases the desire for sex. Perhaps enforced celibacy in a relationship would help in certain circumstances.
So I could see a scenario where the male appendage is locked up and teased somehow for a period of time. And of course vice versa

Yep. Wife discovered a while ago the benefits of doing this, being able to receive oral or penetration without having to worry at all about getting me off was quite liberating

When I was quite young, I had a girlfriend who did this and various other things, because she was an emerging Domme. At the time I didn't recognise the pattern because it wasn't something I knew about. I just thought there were some things she liked, and some she didn't, and we mostly did the things she liked.

I don't mind now. I like the way it prolongs the passionate and romantic behaviour, and you can take a break and still be keen.

It does have some advantages, and the people who do it, like it. Though I suppose if they didn't like it they wouldn't do it.

A lot of the stories you hear may be fantasies, but not all.

My effeminate pal (my rock also) likes me to wear the key of his cage on a chain lol x

Mine does the same and its so embarrassing when other ladies pick up on it 😆

So, we did get into this last year, I had seen some things about it and a close girl friend mentioned it. I have to say I liked the idea of him of wearing a chastity cage, even just for a short time while we went to the pub or out for the meal. It just seems a turn on and quite kinky to know he is wearing one and nobody else would even have a clue or suspect this.

We did also wonder if he would be able to stop wanking so often and if he would be able to wear it for a few days or a week to help him try and resist the temptation.

We are not really into the chastity lifestyle in a big way but he has worn his cock cage quite a few times at weekends and I think the longest was a week when I went to stay with my sister.

We have done Locktober for the last 8 years and about to start this year’s shortly. I’ve been wearing my cage for a couple of hours a day this week to get used to it again. And my wife set me an additional challenge to update this thread twice a week. Happy Locktober to those taking part.

My cage went on after dinner on September 30th so I’m really a day and a half into Locktober. There are no issues with the fit but I’m still very aware that it’s on and I get that feeling that everyone knows or can see it, which would be potentially embarrassing at work. We had dinner with friends last night, so normal life continues too.

lot of info here
https://chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php

I think my wife already knows about that site!

I bet you are enjoying the consequences as well 😂

By the end of october you will reap your reward. unless she decides to go for NOvember of course😂😂

It’s only day 2 so nothing significant yet!

NOvember doesn’t happen with us lol

She might have other plans this year...what makes you think you have an option on this matter...😀

It sounds like you are speaking from experience!