Anyone else happy with but crave a bit of kink?

[Thesnappyone]

So just that really! Happily married in almost every way. Lovely man with a nice healthy sex life. But there are more kinky things ive done in the past with other partners that husband not into. No problem never want him to do anytning hes not comfortable or turned on by. But my god does anyone else have days where they wish just for a few hours they could turn back the clock and have a partner use them in a certain way for a few hours! Its not make or break for marriage or life for me but miss that feeling

I guess there's a lot to be said for the early discussion about what excites you and what you'd both look forward to? Is there a way you can open the door a little on what you miss without scaring him?

Absolutely yes, I miss the kink and filth. It's a difficult conversation to have when you're already established, both sexually and in other aspects of the relationship though. Are you thinking of raising it OP, or looking elsewhere for your fix?

He knows I like these things and enjoyed them in the past just not his thing I respect that. I wouldnt want it to effect the marriage just sometimes get a craving for the excitement

That's especially tough if you've had the courage to raise and it's a no.

He knows and kbows how much I like it he will playbto a certain extent but not like I really need sometimes or how other men have been with me. No would never look elsewhere everything else is so good and sex to a point is good too. Just not what ive had in the past. Not sure why I posted really, in a way just to see if others fwlt that way and that im not a bad person for how I feel sometimes

This is precisely why I decided to write some real-life erotica! Satisfies an itch...

Where can I read it?! She asks for a friend

Perhaps you need to discover your own joint kink? Something that works for you both? - The truth game can be a very enlightening starting point, provided you both agree to answer openly and honestly.

Great idea thankyou and anything worth a try

Does he read MN OP? Can you say that there were posts about, X and wondered what it would be like.
Ask someone to start a thread about what you would like then tell him.

Same lol

Am i allowed to post a website?

I think you can? But not sure. I'm sure lots get posted on here?

Im in the same boat I have a filthy mind
I wrote some stories too on Literotica
I found it very cathartic
I don’t have the nerve to show DH what I wrote
😜

I have done a number of "roleplay" stories where we set the scene and then play them out - can get very creative and also very, very naughty.
Please share your stories if you can would love to read them.
I think DH would be turned on if he read them just need to figure out a way to show him...

Well, id love to, www.tillyvanilla.uk, all links on there!

That sounds like fun!

I really is - you can pretend to be whoever you want to be

Just had a quick look.

Tilly not-so-Vanilla more like.....! 😉

Love to what?

Shuffles feet, and looks down..

:-)

do tell...

Why not? Are they that naughty? Or does it give too much away?