Left wanting…

[MorvernCallous]

Just been in a date…. Everything went so well, our third date, really thought sex was in cards. We even spoke about it! I have a hotel room (out of town) and he’s bloody turned me down. I bought sexy lingerie, shaved things… he’s declared tiredness. So gutted!

Oof! That is rough! Do you have someone else (maybe an ex FWB or ONS) you can call on to make use of your current arrangement? 😉

😩🙄

@TwilightSky No sadly. I was so sure it was going to happen

@MorvernCallous sorry to hear that. I hope the room is nice at least and you can sleep in. Small comforts!

Thanks… premier inns finest!

@MorvernCallous just googled it, you have spoilt yourself! Very nice!

Really … pretty basic

@MorvernCallous I am just trying to distract you from your current wanting predicament 😂

Premier Inn checkout is at midday if you fancy a lay in.....

You should have mentioned their famous breakfast with their unlimited hot breakfast buffet.

The breakfast would’ve been much better if I’d gotten some action last night and this morning. Thank you all for responding it made me feel better

Have you got a plan to recover the day a little?

I’m sorry, that’s a disappointing end to an evening…

However, I’m not sure why you’d speculatively book a room…Why not just go back to either of your places if you both had decided you wanted aex?

Such a shame . If often stay in hotels for work and miss having someone to share the facilities lol.
Your man must be pretty cold if he can turn you down when you are sending all the signals. I would say you got away just in time. Are you still there now?

Good be many ressons why not.

*Could oops

I live an hour away in the countryside, last train is 9 ish usually. He has kids at home. We’d been messaging after dates 2 about date 3. I told him I was wanting to have sex, he was keen and I booked the hotel so I could stay later, enjoy a few drinks and then have sex. That’s why I booked a hotel @Pigeonpoodle

TBF could it be he had to get back for kids etc? Did you discuss staying over? RL can often get in the way of romantic ideals!

@JoyousMaker Im having a leisurely start. Ex has the kids, I’m going to go shopping, have a nice lunch and enjoy some time to myself.

@DanDan88 we very much discussed staying over. He had made arrangements for his kids to be looked after, his message this morning was that he got scared off because I was being too sexual. Tells me he’s not for me

Well at least you know now. The sex could have been a disappointment after what he said.

Absolutely not right for you then.

Too sexual? Wow!

Yep @Bloodyuber thats what he said. I thought I was being sexy, but it put him off.

Kind of speechless - sounds like you were just setting the scene for what was to come. As you say, not the man for you and enjoy your day out.

You'd have probably skipped breakfast anyway.