Question for the men…

[Aishabibi]

… why do you all (generalising) want to finish over your partners face? I know it’s a porn thing, but why? My FwB is desperate to do so, I’ve not let him yet because I’m not a huge fan, especially in the eye where it stings like hell.

surely it’s better to be taken over the line rather than manually finishing yourself? Someone please explain it to me….

Don’t men just enjoy finishing over things they find hot? So he’s so turned on looking at you, your face, your expressions, it makes him cum?

not a bloke obviously but that’s my take on it!

As a man I can honestly say I don't know and have never thought about it. Maybe its just trying a different thing occasionally, I have done it a few times with my OH and for her it was the first time she'd had it done and she enjoyed it (she must have as she's let me do it again?)

I know some people will say it's about domination or something similar but surely so is a woman being sat on a man's face? Which is something else I love by the way.

I think it’s disgusting. It’s a porn thing and degrading to women - well, I think so. There is no way in hell I’d let a man do it to me. That’s just my opinion.

I’ve done it a couple of times and I think gym bunny is right, it’s amazing having someone you find really pretty looking at you with the product of pleasure that they have produced on them and them wanting it, but that’s the important part is that they want it

Your question is incorrect.

Errr, no I don't.

It's not something that seems loving and caring to me, more marking territory, porn inspired, submissive thing. That's not what turns me on.

Imo, there's nicer places to finish...

For me, if my partner is encouraging me during a tit wank, and she teases me to cum "big" as she calls it, we both know she wants me to cover her.....and that'll probably include her face. Do folk here really think no one did this before "modern video porn?" Seriously? ...... the Greeks & Romans rather enjoyed the practice as I remember from my University "classics" studies......

I've never done it myself but if my dw asked for it I would happily oblige, however the one thing I know she will never ask for is for me to do that, she doesn't really like it anywhere on her. I don't see an issue if both are up for it but I couldn't imagine asking if it was something I could do personally

I'm not bothered where I cum, I'll usually let the woman decide. I've never cum on a woman's face, as I've never been asked to and it's not something I am particularly arsed about.

Quite often but not always he’ll ask me where I want him to cum. That’s definitely part of the fun imho!

Yes I might ask where, depending on whats happening but I've never really suggested anywhere myself I dont think.

Only done it once, as her request, as she thought it was hot,

The total submission element of it and the fact that it's a dirty little secret between the 2 of you, maybe.

We don't all want to. I find it a bit weird.
My partner wants me to. Which I find even weirder.

Why weird? I enjoy it.

DW and I haven't done this specifically but I would find it hot if she asked. We do finish on each other quite often. We find it hot and funny to mark our territory on each other, basically. It's very primal and intimate and it makes us both laugh.

Yes exactly this. It’s super hot… then as soon as it’s over, we laugh about the mess and clearing up! All part of the fun 😂

I don't know why. I don't imagine it will do much for me, beyond it being something she wants, but I'll give it a go.

Oh sorry no I meant why weird that she would enjoy it? I get it’s not your thing I’m not questioning that!

Thanks for the responses, interesting views as always. In the past when it’s happened it’s been a bit spontaneous and fun, I guess it’s the deliberate, planned manual finish that’s putting me off. He also pulls weird faces while he plays with himself that I find off putting

literally the absolute opposite of how my DW would view this 😆

but also 😢

You mean like he's doing his own thing rather than it being a shared game?

you need to tell him, the problem will be solved I'm sure

Why do I find it weird that she wants it. I guess it has quite negative porn connotations and, whilst I understand some people enjoy being on the lesser side of power dynamics, and I can see why she wants me to cum in her mouth, I just can't imagine the attraction of facials.

I think it’s one of those things that is hot because it is not seen as part of ‘normal sex’ for most, maybe a bit like anal so for most (men) it’s seen as a special treat but if it routinely became part of sex sessions then I’m sure the novelty would wear off for most?