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What to wear to my first sex club ?

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user1479964085 · 29/06/2025 07:24

Hi,
im going to my first sex club very soon. Apart from being very nervous, I have no idea what to wear.
I think it’s quite a high end club as it’s in knights bridge.
I doubt I will be having sex this time and just observing.
im excited but nervous

OP posts:
OfcourseitsaNC · 07/07/2025 12:59

Brave move going expensive underwear @Dexysmidnightstroller

I echo @PinotPony and don't wear items I can't afford to get ruined/lost!

Dexysmidnightstroller · 07/07/2025 13:04

OfcourseitsaNC · 07/07/2025 12:59

Brave move going expensive underwear @Dexysmidnightstroller

I echo @PinotPony and don't wear items I can't afford to get ruined/lost!

Ah well if you lose or ruin it, that would suggest a good night lol … 😂 and an excuse to buy more …

OfcourseitsaNC · 07/07/2025 13:15

I miss the 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 option @Dexysmidnightstroller

I love your thinking!

Gymbunny2025 · 07/07/2025 13:51

OfcourseitsaNC · 07/07/2025 12:57

As with all things, I guess it's horses for courses @Gymbunny2025 . I like OP4F in London the best because it's so chilled. PP in Dunstable was ok, but I did feel in my 40s there.

I'm not a KK girl I don't think, as I'm a little overweight and have an apron belly. It doesn't bother me, but I get the impression it would bother KK and other types of clubs.

I've joined in with a couple a few times as a single female, so you could get the MFF your OH would want. Particularly if you went on a woman focused evening.

I agree that I'm never looking at sliders on men in the same way again!

Thanks ☺️

ATM it’s not something I’d be interested in (especially as he’s said he wouldn’t share me with a man!!) but who knows in the future!

lesgalettes · 07/07/2025 17:36

@OfcourseitsaNC what do women wear to a Saturday night at OP4F?

OfcourseitsaNC · 07/07/2025 17:46

OfcourseitsaNC · 29/06/2025 07:55

I wore a lovely LBD with gorgeous underwear.

When I felt ready a couple of hours into the night, the LBD came off.

Others were wearing basques and slitted underwear from the get go. I didn't feel out of place being more dressed than them.

@lesgalettes

ThatDaringEagle · 08/07/2025 11:00

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CatchMoreFliesWithHoney · 28/08/2025 17:59

OP - How did you get on at the Fox Den? I've signed up to go to one of their events in the next few weeks, and am also a solo woman - is the WhatsApp group for women still going? Any tips for my first party?

Dexysmidnightstroller · 21/09/2025 22:23

user1479964085 · 07/07/2025 06:57

Hi,
actually I think it would be the perfect place for you to gain confidence.
this is completely new to me. But since separating from my husband, I don’t want to die not experiencing something that excites me.
it may not be for me, I will find out. There is no pressure.
can I recommend Foxden, look into it. The woman who runs it is called sinead. It is a sex positive community. I did a zoom with a group of women last week and thought OMG, I’m so glad I found Foxden.
for me, I want to wear sexy lingerie, feel empowered, and if I choose to have sex with someone I will, otherwise I will just go, watch, chat. Everyone is there for different reasons.
life is short, try and if it’s not for you, you have lost nothing.

foxden have a what’s app community group where women meet up and have a drink before going in to an event.

they also do social events with no play, you can just talk to professional work people who are like minded.

the other club is DV (Dominium Vita.
good luck.

Happy for you to PM if you want support.
this is very new for me, but this is my journey. I’m excited and nervous

OP you never reported back? How did it go, if you don’t mind me asking?

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