What to wear to my first sex club ?

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Hi,
im going to my first sex club very soon. Apart from being very nervous, I have no idea what to wear.
I think it’s quite a high end club as it’s in knights bridge.
I doubt I will be having sex this time and just observing.
im excited but nervous

@AugustDawn it’s right there, above your post.

'tents' 😉💪

In answer to the OP, something wipe-clean, probably.

How about a lovely blouse and skirt from Damart. They do wash ever so well.

Im curious and have the most inane questions. Where do you put your clothes when you take them off? What is someone nicks your frock?

I'm laughing so much I nearly spat out my chocolate digestive which is about as risque as I get these days. Good luck OP, I hope it all goes well.

And what is an lbd?

Little black dress

Not Latex Bondage Dungarees then?

Maybe next time.

At the one I went to, you there are lockers and you wear the key on your wrist.

I wore a structured bodysuit the first time. I could fold the cups in half to expose more as the night went on and thigh high boots. And for those asking there are usually changing areas and a cloak room that you can leave your clothing. I think it’s best to observe in something easily accessible if someone takes your fancy. I was very nervous the first time but I fitted right in. Enjoy!

Question (as I am really curious): does anyone who goes to a sex club have pubes? Or is it strictly a pube-free zone?

Men yes, but women pretty much all off - one tiny landing strip last I went

I was an outlier but I have (and had) neat pubes.

Also, more experienced men wear sliders on their feet.

Now I have to ask "Why?" And experienced in sex clubs or in sex?

It’s because most men wear just a towel or boxers. They have to visit the men’s toilets and the toilet floors can get a bit gross, as the night progresses.

I wish I did not know all that Jay. Yuck.

Not as glamorous as you may think. Lol.

Every day's a school day.

Wear whatever makes you feel good about yourself. You can’t go wrong with a LBD and some gorgeous lingerie underneath. But don’t take anything that you’re not willing to lose or wash at 50 degrees! I’ve destroyed far too many expensive Honey Birdette sets at parties! 😢

Many clubs have lockers for your clothing and phone. I always take something comfortable to change into for the journey home afterwards. Queuing for a taxi late at night when you’re scantily dressed is a bad idea.

I’d recommend taking a small drawstring bag with a robe (in case you want to cover up to go to the bar or loo), condoms and lube (if not provided), wet wipes, breath mints, and jelly babies to share. You can also put your discarded knickers in there.

Keep your shoes on. If you walk barefoot through the pile of used condoms in a dark corner, you’ll regret it.

Drink responsibly. Consent and alcohol often don’t mix.

Do couples go to sex clubs or just singles? Do all age groups and body shapes and sizes go, or is it all young beautiful people?

I don’t think I’d ever have the guts to go to one but I’m curious about the set up, I can’t imagine how it all works!

I used to go with a lover (not an exclusive relationship) and we were happy to mix and match at parties. Not everyone is young by any means. I was in my 40s, my lover in his 50s. Neither of us suffered from lack of action at parties.

i did not think about any of the things you mentioned here. That is all brilliant advice. I was wondering about shoes. Is everyone nearly naked ? I’m not sure if I will feel ready to take everything off !!

or even have sex the first time. Yes I have already thought that I’m not going to drink. I want to be in control. I feel so nervous 😬