Do you like giving blow jobs?

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They give me the ick, it just seems dirty and gross.

It’s a bit better if you have them do a “courtesy wash” beforehand. And giving a long one until they finish isn’t obligatory.

Generally only when I’m drunk.

Do you feel the same with oral
on you?

People are allowed to feel like they don’t want a dick in their mouth. Do you?

Yes, I enjoy giving blow jobs. There’s a mutual expectation of cleanliness but sex is meant to be messy. The most passionate, primal sex is when you’re licking the sweat off each other!

Yes! First and foremost l want someone clean. A quick was at the basin if not a shower. I enjoy the reactions, the feel of the growing, the pulse and its changes. I also find it quite comforting; maybe l was deprived of a dummy as a kid. I once asked a male friend if l could when l was deeply upset over something. At first he thought he misheard me.

But l don’t want someone to thrust, try to ram more into my mouth than l am comfortable with or push my head down.

Ha ha I know exactly what you mean about feeling comforting @StarlightLady

OP if they’re not for you that’s not unusual at all just don’t do it. I never do things that give me the ick or I think are gross. Plus lots of men aren’t fussed about them either

Also I think for me some penises are fantastic for blow jobs and others I would rather not. I have an ex who had the best BJ penis ever (for me). Still miss that 😂😂

What makes a good bj penis 😂

well for me personally it’s a decent size but not too big or girthy. Some foreskin but not too long so it needs to be retracted first. A uniform diameter (big heads are great but not for bj!) and clean, smooth and tastes amazing. Also it has to be straight.

plus appreciative of the attention 😂

I love it

Well that’s certainly good to know 😂😉

I think you might have mis-understood my post, it was genuine, and with sincerity and I was intrigued to know from the OP if BJ's gave her the ick because she found them dirty and gross, whether she felt the same with a guy going down on her.

As for me, I couldn't think of anything worse than a dick in my mouth ( well actually I probably could! ) I actually find BJ's uncomfortable since my implant so I'm not overly fussed whether a partner gives me one or not tbh.

I like giving them now with my husband as I love being in control of his pleasure makes me feel good. Definitely always a wash before hand though.
I wasn't always that keen on doing it when I was younger with past boyfriends.

I love giving them it helps that my partner keeps himself clean too. I just love the feel of the skin and how it feels as it gets erect while giving the BJ

Some of these replies are nice to read. DW likes giving me BJs but I've never really accepted that she does. This is making it make more sense to me.

I really love giving them, obviously an expectation of cleanliness but I like knowing I’m giving the pleasure type thing.

Don’t you feel like it’s degrading and you are being used?

Definitely not degrading and I don't feel used OP- I think you've been giving to the wrong person/s. Yes it's doing something that, on paper, is for the other persons pleasure but it's hard to be degraded/used when you're the one in full control?

It's something I'd like to do a lot more but because it's never been a regular occurrence I feel a bit shy about initiating it!

I like giving them, I like being in control, making them mosn with pleasure, feeling how it gets harder. But it has to be clean and on my terms.

That’s why I never did them with anyone apart from DH.

I love giving them, my current partner is circumcised and I enjoy that too.

OP do you think it may be a cultural influence? Or the attitude of your partner? Or just something that gives you the ick?

I don’t like him going down on my either, it just seems a bit gross.

I am happy to give oral, but it's not very pleasant if they're not freshly showered. Do I want to go down on someone who's just come back from a bike ride? No! I don't like anyone going down on me unless I'm straight out of the shower; too paranoid, maybe.

I enjoy seeing and hearing how turned on they're getting and that actually turns me on. What I don't want is my head pushed down or them ejaculating in my mouth.