Partner doesn’t cum with me

[Maybeyou]

We are in a relationship almost 2 years and my partner never cum in me / with me
we use condoms but still he cum only on me with a hand job
what could be a reason?

Ask him?

porn addiction / death grip

Could be anything, you need to ask and tell him to stop wanking on you.

Every time? Ew. Why haven’t you asked him before?

Death grip from too much wanking

The completely made up ‘death grip’ is the answer to most problems on MN.

Definitely not made up

Could be performance anxiety?

Maybe he wants to be sure not to get you pregnant.

Some people cum more easily than others, both men and women. This bloke seems well within the parameters of normal.

Also condoms kill sensation.

Nothing to worry about IMHO.

The very obvious problem is the use of condoms - why on earth are you using them?

I’d rather not have sex if that was the only option - he sounds the same, it’s clearly doing nothing for him.

And this death grip nonsense needs to stop, although I do laugh every time I read it on here!

Gotta be this

They are a contraceptive @Tristan5! And @offmynut

I wish people would stop with all this death grip crap!!

It does not exist and is a complete myth.

Honestly, how hard do you think men grip there dicks?!

Could be porn induced or it could be the condoms, or it could be that he just doesn't cum with penetration.

Its no different in some respects to a women not being able to orgasm with PIV.

I’m not saying to stop using a condom if that’s your preferred method of contraception but when I’ve worn them in the past I tend to last a very long time to the point where sometimes I wouldn’t cum. You can get thinner condoms which might help.
alternatively is another method of contraception an option to see if it makes a difference?

Just as well you’re here, we’d be nowhere without you!👍

That’s ok. I was surprised you wouldn’t realise why people wear them that’s all 😂. Now you know!

Death grip isn't made up.. my ex husband could only cum from wanking himself furiously and "grippy" from years of doing it

I wonder if he has DE?

He'd also had years of getting older.

If DG was real teenage boys would suffer from it more than anyone and I'm pretty sure they emphatically don't.

He was 22 when we got married

Are you at the wind-up Gymbunny?

Of course I realise what they’re for, but their use in longer relationships is rather unusual, don’t you think?

There are pros and cons for all forms of contraception. I have used at various life stages for various reasons. According to google (must be true!) 15% in LTR use. Not that unusual really?

Those figures are hardly reliable, are they?

It is absolutely unusual, based on my extensive research!!

I stand corrected- you are more accurate than google @Tristan5 😂😂