Me and my wife have always had different sex drives and have known each over and been married forty years. I could have sex every day while if my wife didn't have sex ever again I really don't think she would be too bothered. She has told me quite a few times that she is a self confessed prude and for the past twenty years we have had sex in one position with little involvement from my wife apart from kissing about once a week.
We both still have good lean bodies in our sixties and my wife goes to Zumba three times a week and is out for three hours each time all told with a break, chat, going for coffee and exercise after one Zumba session.
We were talking this afternoon and my wife said in so many words " I'm too old for sex now, I'm too tired.
I said " This is going to be an egg shell moment but how can you not be loving and have sex with me for fifteen minutes a week but be out three times a week for nine hours with at least six hours dancing and exercise with coach trips to markets, visits to shows and Christmas parties.
I don't go out and spend all my time in the garden and love being retired. We have had a big argument and she says it's not the first time she has said she doesn't really want sex anymore and she says she's not going to Zumba anymore and sex is now also finished and I have stopped her doing something she really loves.
I never asked her to stop going to Zumba which she is saying I have and apart from her times dancing we live in each others pockets.
Is it unreasonable what I have said and compared, I have compromised for twenty years with the one position sex and I really understand we are all different but I couldn't keep quiet under the circumstances and now we are not talking.
My wife can carry this on for hours and even days if I let it with me making it up every time soon after.
Let you know how we get on..