Hooking up with someone for oral sex only

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Since a couple of months ago, I have been hooking up with a guy for him to give me oral sex specifically. I found him on Bumble. He asked if I would be ok with us not having full sex (as in shagging). I quite liked the idea and also wanted to see if he was serious about it. To put it succinctly, he was serious about it and has shown himself to be very skilled in that area. I have had an orgasm each time I've seen him. Sometimes it has been more than one. I've offered to reciprocate oral on him, but he's politely declined saying that he only really enjoys giving. That's fine with me. I'm certainly enjoying it and hoping the arrangement continues for a while. I am curious if anyone else has experience with oral-only arrangements or if it appeals to them.

That's a very very strange arrangement but each to their own I guess...

It would definitely appeal to me to give in that scenario, I love giving oral, but I think I would want it reciprocated occasionally.

i have a submissive male pal
On occasions I have pushed his head down there and ordered him to do the deed lol

Usually after a few drinks!

If he’s doing his job and a one way direction of travel meets you needs, enjoy!

I wonder if he has a wife/partner and, by not having penetrative sex, that's how he's able to justify cheating in his mind. If not, it sounds like a great arrangement and you may as well make the most of it!

As a male, this would be my ideal scenario, albeit preferably proceeded with lots of sensual touch and stroking all over her first. I know it sounds weird but I get a lot of sensory satisfaction through my fingertips as I massage or stroke someone’s fair and smooth skin and find it helps with trust and arousal before what is a very intimate act.

It may sound lame but I don’t get any pleasure from a BJ (or maybe I’ve just never had a good one) but I find I’m way too sensitive and it just isn’t fun at all.

Fortunately I’m told I’m very skilled with my tongue and have always delivered but from my male perspective it’s a real rush and unrivalled feeling of satisfaction to know you can have that effect on someone and bring them that pleasure just with the tip of your tongue.

If only this was a career option I would have had much better job satisfaction ;)

I wonder if in the OP’s scenario the chap is clothed or naked and whether that makes a difference to her?

It wouldn't appeal to me but good for you. I've read of a similar scenario though and the guy turned out to be a woman.

Do you fancy him? If yes, don't you want more than just oral?! If no- the thought is yuck!

Personally I don't get it!

Completely agree with @jubs15

I think that’s a perfect deal.

Eek, op have you seen his cock?
Perhaps he has an std

I'm in a similar situation but the opposite way around. A friend of mine said his wife refuses to ever give him blow jobs. About once a month we meet up and I give him relief.

Sounds like a good plan for both parties..

I’ve seen a few of these on hookup sites. If it’s a good arrangement for both parties can’t see any issue most definitely the reverse would be celebrated!

As to why, if indeed the chap has kept his pants on then there is a chance he has an issue in function or size with his cock.

After reading a few threads on here I can certainly see why this is beneficial to him to experience sexual interaction without associated shame or disappointment of exposing himself if he’s been hurt/humiliated before 🍄‍🟫

@ZeldaOlivia i suspect you’ll get a lot of PMs after that comment.

He has kept his pants on each time I've seen him. I feel like it would be weird to ask him to take them off when he is just giving oral. I wouldn't be opposed to having penetrative sex though.

Yes I was going to say, are you conscious of his ?

I do hope that his wife has consented to this arrangement.

Of course she must fancy him otherwise she wouldn't let him do it. I'd love to be in her situation tbh. How exciting! And to not have to reciprocate as I hate giving it. Plus only way I come is this way or my dildo.

I had an ex who was more in to going down on me than he was doing anything else.
It was good, he knew what he was doing but it did feel a bit limited in the end, a one trick pony as that was all we did and missed other parts of sex. And no he didn’t have a wife.
My current partner does oral sex (which he’s also great at) and we also does all the normal stuff which feels more normal/healthy.

Maybe he has a small penis? Maybe he is impotent? Maybe he suffers with PE? Maybe he is sexually submissive and loves going down on you without you reciprocating. He sounds like my BF

This !
I suspect a lot of women only orgasm this way to be honest x

As someone earlier said each to their own. Seems strange to me as I’d be super turned on during and after and having it returned would be welcomed at that point. Wonder what his deal is? Maybe just submissive