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Hooking up with someone for oral sex only

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flatshoeadvocate · 07/11/2024 21:43

Since a couple of months ago, I have been hooking up with a guy for him to give me oral sex specifically. I found him on Bumble. He asked if I would be ok with us not having full sex (as in shagging). I quite liked the idea and also wanted to see if he was serious about it. To put it succinctly, he was serious about it and has shown himself to be very skilled in that area. I have had an orgasm each time I've seen him. Sometimes it has been more than one. I've offered to reciprocate oral on him, but he's politely declined saying that he only really enjoys giving. That's fine with me. I'm certainly enjoying it and hoping the arrangement continues for a while. I am curious if anyone else has experience with oral-only arrangements or if it appeals to them.

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charlieinthehaystack · 16/11/2024 17:14

been with someone like that seemed to be all for me but he was happy enough, never really found out why he was like that but i was happy enough

Rachel757677 · 16/11/2024 22:57

TheDeftSwan · 16/11/2024 17:08

As someone earlier said each to their own. Seems strange to me as I’d be super turned on during and after and having it returned would be welcomed at that point. Wonder what his deal is? Maybe just submissive

Most likely he is submissive and also sexually inadequate in some way. My BF and I never have penetrative sex for those reasons. Giving me oral sex is his favourite thing in the world I think.🤣

Angela59 · 17/11/2024 06:12

Most definitely a submissive thing IMO

Miffed1233 · 17/11/2024 07:03

As I said in an earlier post, i absolutely love giving oral and would love this scenario. I wouldn't deecribe myself as submissive though (although can be in role play). For me its the amazing feeing i get knowing the affect my hands & tongue have had on a womans body. Seeing, sensing and feeling her climax is the most rewarding feeling ever. Is that submissive? Im not sure?

Dreamingofretirement · 17/11/2024 07:58

I have a fwb who only really wants to do oral on me, he loves doing it asap after I’ve had sex with someone else, sometimes within minutes and as much as I’d love to also have sex with him it’s always been about the oral on me from his perspective. I don’t actually think he’s ever even touched my boobs or anything else intimate, I’ve wanked him maybe twice in 50+ meets. On the plus side I’ve had mind blowing orgasms every time

Angela59 · 17/11/2024 08:01

Dreamingofretirement · 17/11/2024 07:58

I have a fwb who only really wants to do oral on me, he loves doing it asap after I’ve had sex with someone else, sometimes within minutes and as much as I’d love to also have sex with him it’s always been about the oral on me from his perspective. I don’t actually think he’s ever even touched my boobs or anything else intimate, I’ve wanked him maybe twice in 50+ meets. On the plus side I’ve had mind blowing orgasms every time

Definitely a submissive!

Dreamingofretirement · 17/11/2024 08:02

Angela59 · 17/11/2024 08:01

Definitely a submissive!

That’s fine by me, with a tongue like his he can be anything he wants haha!

Rachel757677 · 17/11/2024 08:15

Dreamingofretirement · 17/11/2024 07:58

I have a fwb who only really wants to do oral on me, he loves doing it asap after I’ve had sex with someone else, sometimes within minutes and as much as I’d love to also have sex with him it’s always been about the oral on me from his perspective. I don’t actually think he’s ever even touched my boobs or anything else intimate, I’ve wanked him maybe twice in 50+ meets. On the plus side I’ve had mind blowing orgasms every time

If he likes "cleaning" you after you have been with another guy, he most likely has a cuckold fetish. I get my BF to go down on me as soon as my lover finishes. It turns him on like nothing else.

Dreamingofretirement · 17/11/2024 08:19

Rachel757677 · 17/11/2024 08:15

If he likes "cleaning" you after you have been with another guy, he most likely has a cuckold fetish. I get my BF to go down on me as soon as my lover finishes. It turns him on like nothing else.

That’s possibly it x he’s never really talked much about me with other men but I have shown him the odd photo /short video of other men inside me and he definitely likes that

BeenThere101 · 17/11/2024 10:25

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