When he ejaculates

[AbigailB]

So until I started trying to conceive I’ve always used condoms (tried the pill but it made me feel horrible). I thought that I would “feel/experience” when he ejaculates inside, but I just don’t feel anything. I can feel him but I thought I’d feel ‘something’ more. I just thought there would be more to it. Is this normal?

Feel the actual ejaculate emerge like a sprinkler no, though there is often more fluid than usual and a noticeable wet patch afterwards.
Generally you can tell by a man’s behaviour when he’s reached a climax though. (Are you suspecting yours is not quite on board with the baby plans and is faking?!)

I can usually feel the contractions, but not the actual ejaculate. Most of the nerve endings are in the lower third of the vagina, so this is to be expected.

Oh I don’t think he’s faking, as I can feel it afterwards (wet patch etc). I just thought I would feel it more at the moment he ejaculates. Maybe I’ve just been reading too many trashy romance novels!

Yes, you won’t feel it at all. As said above, you can sometimes feel the contractions but that’s it.

I can’t feel it either.

Nope 👎🏻 can feel when he twitches from it but not the actual 'splash back'

I can tell when he cums from his face, the sound he makes and him going a bit softer than he was but I don't feel the wetness until afterwards when it leaks out.

It's unlikely his ejaculation will feel different to you if he's wearing a condom or not.
I'm not sure what romantic novels you've been reading. 😵

No, I don’t usually feel it. Only exception is anal but, as a PP suggested, that’s probably to do with nerve endings.

Can feel the throbbing and contractions ! Not the actual load until after. I think I would be concerned if I could feel the actual shots fired.. then again he sounds like a pressure washer doing his morning tinkle 🤔

I've felt it but only the once and never again. It was a glorious feeling. I wonder if the temperature difference of him and I made the difference?

How do you mean?

@AbigailB How do I mean by the temperature difference?

Yes, was he very cold? Are you sleeping with a Snowman?

Yes, I don’t understand

@AbigailB I suppose it felt like a shot of hot fluid against a cold me. Never felt it since unfortunately

‘Sounds as if you are confusing this with having him in your mouth!

It’s super rare that you’d feel it. Aside from throb or pulse you’ll know more a little later as gravity takes effect

If a guy is a heavy cummer can deffo feel
it. A big turn on for me is a guy who can pulse when he cums that’s a real
nice sensation

Well I can feel it. It feels really warm and immediately I feel a combination of being kind of really spaced out and also sort of elated. So I definitely feel it. And it is euphoric in its own way.

The fast twitch muscle fibers in the penis and the pelvic floor will pulsate during ejaculation. Since the vagina has ridges in it the pulsing of the penis would be felt.

This. There’s no way you can feel the cum as it’s ejaculated, not at the exact moment. You feel it afterwards; sometimes quite a while after!

The throbbing of ejaculation is certainly a glorious feeling.

Exactly. The pulsing (throbbing) of the fast twitch muscle fibers would be felt.

I can feel his cock pulsing and throbbing when he cums in me but cannot feel the actually squirts of his load.

The cervix is in front of the ejaculate, but the cervix might try not be close enough to feel anything at ejaculation.