Does your partner go down on you if...

[Isitmeorhim24]

He has recently cum in you? We have sex every day and every time he cums in me. However because I'm always full of cum, despite showering immediately after to try and disperse some, he won't go down on me during our next sex session.
It makes me feel a bit aggrieved but I don't know if this is a common thing that men don't like to do? Apologise for the subject matter but feel sex board is definitely the right place for this! Thanks!

If he came in you one day, and uses that as an excuse to not give you oral the next day, that seems a bit weak to me. You wont have any sperm hanging around for him to inadvertently get a taste of.

If he doesn't like oral full stop, then thats his perogative but is a different conversation you need to have. For some people no oral is a deal breaker, which is fine, but you need to find out the truth from him first.

Mine does - no issues. Even straight after and he wouldn’t think twice about doing it the following day. Everyone is different though and maybe he just doesn’t want to taste himself. Has he ever tried it? Maybe the thought puts him off more than the reality but you obviously can’t make him do it if he doesn’t want to. This does of course work both ways.

Do you give him oral immediately after he’s been inside of you?

He says he doesn't want to taste himself. I give him a bj everytime without fail even if it's been in me. He has gone down on me many times in the past and likes to make me cum from it, but seems reluctant when he has come in me the day before.
I think I'm going to stop him from cumming in me to make a point!

It doesn’t bother me. I love going down on my wife and making her cum through oral. Sounds like he’s a bit squeamish

I think it’s peoples different preferences, my partner won’t give me oral after I’ve been inside her, so we just do that 1st

Women adore oral when full of cum, I love obliging and reap amazing rewards, one of my favourite things, especially the first time with someone new - they’re initially shocked, then get lost in sheer pleasure.

This guy is making excuses, pretty embarrassing really.

This reply is what's embarrassing.

That made me laugh, thank you!

Agreed.

Thanks for telling a forum of women what they all like @Freddy75 . I feel enlightened now you've told me what I enjoy🤦

My current partner doesn't like to go down on me immediately after he's cum inside me @Isitmeorhim24 My previous partner did.

Current partner would have no problem going down on me a few hours after cumming inside me though.

TMI!

But have a nice evening.

I guess my question then is when does he give you oral then?

Mine loves it and also likes kissing me after he’s cum in my mouth. He also asked to go down on me “if it’s not too bloody” during my period this week. He's hot af.

Or perhaps try reducing sex to every second day?

Your time management must be much better than mine if you manage to find the time for full-on sex with all of the bells and whistles every day! 😂

I have to say I would never expect my partner to give me oral straight after cumming inside me and don’t think I’d want him to.
Even though I can’t see the issue with it the following day, it’s obviously something he’s not happy doing so I wouldn’t push it or make him feel bad about it.
The women on here would be outraged if it was a man complaining that his partner refuses to give him a BJ after he’s been inside her.
Respect his feelings on the issue and stop trying to find ways to “convince” him; it’s unfair.

I'm not trying to 'convince' him.
I think it's hypercritical though, so I won't be giving him bjs anymore.

Yeah sorry I probably didn’t word that too well I was reacting more to the guy above saying that your partner is making excuses and it’s embarrassing, which I don’t agree with at all!

My OH does although has been a more recent thing. I never expected him to but one day he just cuddled me after cumming in me and I told him I still felt hot and he went down on me again. Gave me the most incredible second orgasm and I found it a real turn on doing it when I had his cum inside me. He loved me telling him as well

me and mine don't mind body fluids

Is this the following day he won't go down on you, or shortly after he's finished so you can orgasm too?

We tend to start with oral as receiving is one of my favourite things and always completely relaxes me tbh then move onto sex where I find it easier to orgasm as a result. We don't give each other oral after penetration as I don't want to taste myself personally but next day after a shower would be fine for us.

I was wondering this, they have sex every day, he goes down on her but only if it’s not a day after he’s cum inside her. Based on my deduction skills…that’s not possible.

So we have lots of sex in general but its been every day for the last month, so I guess the last time he went down on me was last month when he came home from work. He makes me cum anytime he gives me oral then we have sex. But maybe I'm just being over sensitive and he just can't tolerate his 'fluids' which is fair enough.

Oh and just to add he makes me cum every time we have sex so he isn't selfish at all.

Reacently after I’d climaxed during PIV DH asked me to finish him off by giving him a blow job instead of carrying on with penetration which he hadn’t asked before but I was happy to do so even though he had been inside me, once he’d cum he offered to return the favour, I was still feeling aroused after my initial orgasm and from how much he’d enjoyed his BJ…. the second orgasm i had when he went down on me was one of the most intense I’ve ever had, now he will frequently go down on me after PIV whether he has cum inside me or elsewhere

My DP does it all the time - he loves giving oral anyway