Does your partner go down on you if...

[Isitmeorhim24]

He has recently cum in you? We have sex every day and every time he cums in me. However because I'm always full of cum, despite showering immediately after to try and disperse some, he won't go down on me during our next sex session.
It makes me feel a bit aggrieved but I don't know if this is a common thing that men don't like to do? Apologise for the subject matter but feel sex board is definitely the right place for this! Thanks!

All women ??

The ones I’ve known …..

Sperm hangs around for days actually, hence why women can become pregnant if they've had intercourse a few days before ovulation. Those things are patient.

Apologies, I meant hanging around for him to be able to taste the next day. It's not something I have ever come across anyway.

OP, his attitude sounds very childish to be honest. I kiss after someone has gone down on me and vice versa.

Agree. It's so odd to me anyway, when people are keen to have sex but are squeamish about this and that.

First, he's lucky that he gets to cum inside you every day. I wish my wife and I had that regularity! Second, I wouldn't be squeamish about going down on her the next day (or even later the same day). That seems rather odd to be hung up on that. Now if it were another man's sperm, that would make more sense, but that would involve taking things to a whole different level haha.

My DH does. He absolutely loves going down on me though, does it both before and after PIV.

Aww lovely, I totally understand where you're coming from. My partner can be a bit funny about this too, so you're definitely not alone. It’s not always easy to completely clean up after, even when you shower right away. Sometimes, it just takes a bit longer for everything to feel completely fresh again.

It sounds like your partner really cares about making you feel good, which is wonderful. Maybe you could have a gentle chat with him about how you’re feeling? You could mention that while you understand his concerns, it makes you feel a bit disappointed, especially since you’re happy to go down on him regardless.

Perhaps finding a compromise could help—maybe he could avoid cumming inside sometimes, or you both could try different timings for oral so you both feel comfortable. Communication is key, and it sounds like you two already have a strong connection to build on.

Sending hugs your way—I know this kind of stuff can be tricky to navigate, but you're doing great by addressing it so openly.

He went down on me last night yay!