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To try this threesome

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Amyrainyday · 27/12/2023 07:08

Hi everyone, I hope you’ve all had a good Xmas.

Dh and I have decided that we want to experiment more sexually in the new year. We’ve already had a couple of threesomes with another woman, but we’re now thinking about inviting another man into our bed. I have a fantasy to see dh with another guy, and he’s to for it.

has anyone else tried this?

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AnxiousPangolin · 27/12/2023 07:10
Hmm
C1N1C · 27/12/2023 07:10

Not tried it, and you're obviously allowed to do whatever you please. However, I'd be worried that feelings for the other person develop and you've inadvertently weakened your marriage.

Flymetothetoon · 27/12/2023 07:18

Guys don't forget it's the school holidays!

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Amyrainyday · 27/12/2023 16:52

Don’t worry, it’ll happen in a hotel when the dc’s are at grandparents

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Amyrainyday · 27/12/2023 16:53

I don’t think it’s something we would do repeatedly with the same person but I get your point

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Offwiththecircus · 27/12/2023 20:54

Flymetothetoon · 27/12/2023 07:18

Guys don't forget it's the school holidays!

Because everyone knows that schoolkids do 18 hour days termtime?

Jk8 · 27/12/2023 22:41

I'd prefer it to another female personally - especially if its your partner who'll be involved with both but no advice or experiance. Sorry

GentlemanJay · 27/12/2023 22:46

Find someone you don't know.

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Amyrainyday · 28/12/2023 10:38

It’s happening tomorrow😬

kids are going away with my parents tomorrow until Sunday. We’re nervous but excited

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Confused118 · 28/12/2023 10:43

How did you find someone so quickly?

And how far are you wanting DH to go with the man?

MS302 · 28/12/2023 10:48

I have 3sum all MMF and very nice

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Amyrainyday · 28/12/2023 11:27

We’d already been talking to a guy that we’d met online. We had a face time chat yesterday and we’re just gonna go for it. We’ve agreed to just take it steady, have a couple of drinks and see what happens,

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Amyrainyday · 28/12/2023 11:28

In response to the second bit of your post- it’s really up to dh,

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DixonD · 28/12/2023 12:09

I hope you have fun.

Personally, it would be a massive turn off to see my husband with another man. I wouldn’t want a threesome with another woman either so I guess it’s out for me. We’re all different though, so I hope you enjoy yourself. Just be aware you might experience feelings that you don’t expect.

Confused118 · 28/12/2023 13:40

Amyrainyday · 28/12/2023 11:28

In response to the second bit of your post- it’s really up to dh,

I see, are you planning to do things with the extra man?

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Amyrainyday · 28/12/2023 18:47

Yes, we both will

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Confused118 · 28/12/2023 20:16

Amyrainyday · 28/12/2023 18:47

Yes, we both will

I've never imagined my DH enjoying a man for me!

Was it hard to convince him?

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Amyrainyday · 28/12/2023 22:19

No but dh has had previous gay experiences so it’s not his first rodeo with this stuff.

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JL690 · 29/12/2023 00:21

I cant imagine enjoying seeing the man I love having sex with another man. I hope you all have clear boundaries.

Confused118 · 29/12/2023 00:30

Amyrainyday · 28/12/2023 22:19

No but dh has had previous gay experiences so it’s not his first rodeo with this stuff.

Well good for you to embrace that, let us know how it goes!

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Amyrainyday · 29/12/2023 09:58

The nerves are kicking in now!

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Winmaiden · 29/12/2023 18:37

If you’re comfortable then go for it! Dh and I have enjoyed inviting others into our bedroom. Hope it goes well

Janiie · 29/12/2023 18:42

If he's had had previous gay experiences then I think you may feel surplus to requirements. Don't mfm threesomes work better than mmf ones? No personal experiences and if you will enjoy seeing him with a man then great but you may end up like Ross in Friends with that scene where his part in the proceedings was over very quickly..

Winmaiden · 29/12/2023 18:45

My dh got a bj during a threesome once.he’d never done anything with a man before but he enjoyed it!

AxolotlLove · 29/12/2023 21:16

I've had MMF, but attention focused on me as DH is not interested in men. Cannot recommend highly enough if you like attention and giving and receiving oral.

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