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Sent him something special

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soundofsilence8 · 24/09/2023 07:51

Last night, after several days of of flirting and build up over text, I sent this guy an audio clip of myself having an orgasm. I know him in person and we've really hit it off. I've never done anything like it before and it made me feel empowered. He loved it. It felt very intimate, more so than a photo. I'm looking forward to seeing him in person as its now our little secret. It's not really appropriate for us to have a relationship (yet) as we work together but it feels naughty and fun. Has anyone else made a recording of themselves and sent it to someone? Apparently this is a whole thing that people get off on. I prefer it.

OP posts:
catrescuelady · 24/09/2023 07:59

Confusedno. Only a few days texting??

Original poster
soundofsilence8 · 24/09/2023 08:06

Known each other for 3 years 😉

OP posts:
Thisisveryhard · 24/09/2023 08:12

What dupe has happened in society that women think doing this shit is ‘empowering’. It’s not. Instead you have handed the power to him to do whatever he wants with that image, show it to whoever he wants, put it on whatever part of the net he wants, and look at it for however long he likes after you have split up, even if you hate him by then.

Unless I misunderstood and you meant you empowered him, not you. Which you have.

Or this post is made up to show the ridiculousness of ‘ exposing myself publicly to please a man is so empowering!’ Which it hopefully is, as this post is very try hard and over the top.

pictoosh · 24/09/2023 08:13

What? No!
Once you've sent it, it's out there forever and can be used by this chap and whoever he might decide to share it with.
I mean if you're good with that, fine.
I wouldn't be.

BIWI · 24/09/2023 08:13

JFC.

Tacky beyond belief. As well as potentially dangerous for you.

pictoosh · 24/09/2023 08:14

Not empowering in the least.

Carebearstare12e · 24/09/2023 08:14

You want people to tell you their tales so you can get off on them then? On a Sunday morning?

BIWI · 24/09/2023 08:14

Why didn't you post this in the sex topic?

MonikerBing · 24/09/2023 08:14

Jeez.

How can you think this is empowering? you've given all the power to him and put something out there which leaves you really exposed.

BatshitCrazyWoman · 24/09/2023 08:15

Thisisveryhard · 24/09/2023 08:12

What dupe has happened in society that women think doing this shit is ‘empowering’. It’s not. Instead you have handed the power to him to do whatever he wants with that image, show it to whoever he wants, put it on whatever part of the net he wants, and look at it for however long he likes after you have split up, even if you hate him by then.

Unless I misunderstood and you meant you empowered him, not you. Which you have.

Or this post is made up to show the ridiculousness of ‘ exposing myself publicly to please a man is so empowering!’ Which it hopefully is, as this post is very try hard and over the top.

It's an audio clip, I doubt the OP is particularly identifiable.

Mummy08m · 24/09/2023 08:16

For me, that sound is a lover's reward for bringing it about (live, in person). I wouldn't let him have it for free

Peacendkindness · 24/09/2023 08:16

to someone at work! What are you on? It’s not empowering - it’s the reverse

GodDammitCecil · 24/09/2023 08:16

Sorry, but 😂😂😂😂😂😂

You think Mumsnet, of all places, is the place to share this…?

Haven’t you got anywhere better to hang out online?

😂😂

Longingforthesummer · 24/09/2023 08:17

Is this real???? Worded very weirdly 🤔

GodDammitCecil · 24/09/2023 08:18

Your username, as well 😅

nottaotter · 24/09/2023 08:18

My worry would be he tells other people or plays it to his mates. If he did that obviously he would be the one who would be a total dick, but it's just the fact you work together that I couldn't deal with my colleagues knowing.

Older73 · 24/09/2023 08:21

No good. I wouldn’t even sent to DH .

Wolfricbriandumbledore · 24/09/2023 08:21

You ‘prefer’ sending a colleague an audio clip of you getting off? To what? Shagging in the photocopier room?

Will you feel equally ‘empowered’ when all of Accounts has your orgasm as their mobile ringtone?

GodDammitCecil · 24/09/2023 08:22

Stop taking it seriously people, come on.

Hilarious - good effort, OP!

Embarrassednamechangeadoddle · 24/09/2023 08:24

What are you asking? If other people get off on sending sexual audio/video of themselves to others? Seems a suspect thing to start a thread about.

Buildingthefuture · 24/09/2023 08:25

I work with mainly men. I would never, ever send anything, be it picture, video or audio, that I didn’t want shared in the staff canteen or on line. Because they do share those things. A lot.

Loubelle70 · 24/09/2023 08:27

Thisisveryhard · 24/09/2023 08:12

What dupe has happened in society that women think doing this shit is ‘empowering’. It’s not. Instead you have handed the power to him to do whatever he wants with that image, show it to whoever he wants, put it on whatever part of the net he wants, and look at it for however long he likes after you have split up, even if you hate him by then.

Unless I misunderstood and you meant you empowered him, not you. Which you have.

Or this post is made up to show the ridiculousness of ‘ exposing myself publicly to please a man is so empowering!’ Which it hopefully is, as this post is very try hard and over the top.

I agree. Not slating OP.
Theres some fooked up people who will share this if crossed, you dump them etc. I wouldn't...i dont mind sexting but not videos...no no no. Also you never know someone no matter how long you have known them. Its not empowering...empowering is saying i dont do that sh*t..because i dont want to..

Loubelle70 · 24/09/2023 08:29

Buildingthefuture · 24/09/2023 08:25

I work with mainly men. I would never, ever send anything, be it picture, video or audio, that I didn’t want shared in the staff canteen or on line. Because they do share those things. A lot.

This^
I work in women's aid and you wouldn't believe the amount of women that have been betrayed by their partner, ex distributing their material..even to her family, work colleagues or on the internet. Its control for the man.
Dont do it xxx

benoticanarsed · 24/09/2023 08:29

No

category12 · 24/09/2023 08:30

Yes, let's all share stories of the naughty pictures and clips we send our menfolk. Teehee, and we'll run around in our undies and braid each other's hair, what fun.

Or not.

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