Sent him something special

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Last night, after several days of of flirting and build up over text, I sent this guy an audio clip of myself having an orgasm. I know him in person and we've really hit it off. I've never done anything like it before and it made me feel empowered. He loved it. It felt very intimate, more so than a photo. I'm looking forward to seeing him in person as its now our little secret. It's not really appropriate for us to have a relationship (yet) as we work together but it feels naughty and fun. Has anyone else made a recording of themselves and sent it to someone? Apparently this is a whole thing that people get off on. I prefer it.

I know its audio but it can get deeper than this. He can still share it and also her denying it wont cut the mustard. Xx

Cringe

Okay then 🙄

I'm torn. Obviously like the majority of posters I believe in female empowerment and being able to enjoy your sexuality

However

I work in a sexual assault and domestic abuse centre and have also worked with male offenders and in reality, I wouldn't be able to trust that this wouldn't be used inappropriately by a man. Not even my husband would get something like this (I trust him, but doesn't every woman who sends these sorts of things! No one expects to be harmed abused or betrayed, that's part of the shock and sadness of it!!)

Last night, after several days of of flirting and build up over text, I sent this guy an audio clip of myself having an orgasm. I know him in person and we've really hit it off. I've never done anything like it before and it made me feel empowered.

Well, it's a step up from photocopying your arse or boobs at the office Xmas party!!!

100% this. I used to work in construction, 50ish guys and 2 women on our site, they (the men) are all gobshites and you wouldn't believe the info they share.

Mortified for you OP tbh

If the roles were reversed and he sent a voice note of him cuming in his pants i don’t think many people would find it empowering . I think the find it gross as fuck. I think this might be one to regret, especially if you work together.

I once sent DP a voice message of me coughing when I had pneumonia for a laugh, was a proper hacking cough with mucus and you could hear it coming up. That was fun. 😃

Very much in the embarrassed for you camp. This isn't something you'll look back on with pride.

You barely know him and you have absolutely no control over what he does with that clip now

Imagine bragging about it in a thread!

Doesn't sound like it's real to me but you do you love.....

I’m torn. Obviously like the majority of posters I believe in female empowerment and being able to enjoy your sexuality

See this is the dupe that’s been played. That women are so lied to about what empowerment is, that they think making yourself so obviously vulnerable to a man is empowerment. No it’s not. Maintaining control is empowerment. Handing control to Harry in IT is not. Like PP said, ‘Saying No’. Is empowerment.

it's perfectly fine OP and loads of people do it all the time. He might share it, yeah, but it's more likely he won't. I imagine it didn't include your name and National Security number.

He'll have it as his ring tone.

Which will be hilarious when he takes a call in the office.

Weird that you did it, even weirder that you posted about it.

Do they also come onto Mumsnet, of all places, to say they’ve done it? Because that’s where it veers into ‘loser’ territory.

Or add it to a benign video like those "omg watch this with the volume up" and its that daft woman fake porno orgasming over the top of a bin truck video or something 🤣🤣🤣

My mate gets me everytime with those videos in work, the scoundrel

That’s nice dear 🙄

That’s disgusting, get some self respect.

I'm confused as to why you're sharing.
Is it because this is your greatest achievement?
Is it because you're seeking validation for this newest act of silly?
Or is it because you're a bloke who was desperately hoping all the yummy mummy's on here would be like 'hell yeah, we do this on the daily' so you can get off to everyone else's depravity?

Come the fuck on.

#thathappened

Why are you telling us?

Interesting first post

I imagine op is telling us because she has slight second thoughts about it and wanted reassurance that it's normal, everyone does it - but it isn't really for all the reasons mentioned

Please start looking for another job. You could be the last to know that all your male colleagues have heard it.