Sent him something special

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Last night, after several days of of flirting and build up over text, I sent this guy an audio clip of myself having an orgasm. I know him in person and we've really hit it off. I've never done anything like it before and it made me feel empowered. He loved it. It felt very intimate, more so than a photo. I'm looking forward to seeing him in person as its now our little secret. It's not really appropriate for us to have a relationship (yet) as we work together but it feels naughty and fun. Has anyone else made a recording of themselves and sent it to someone? Apparently this is a whole thing that people get off on. I prefer it.

Cool story bro. You got any homework to get done ?

Okay maybe the OP is made up in an attempt to get titillating stories. But I'm going to treat it as a real post, because honestly I think this is pretty common behaviour - it's sexting and it's what people do. OP I don't think you need to be worried or ashamed about this. I'd take the precaution of making sure you're not identifiable in any intimate communication, but other than that, just enjoy it and have fun. The only issue I see here is that it's someone you work with - seems unwise to get sexual with him in that case. But as for sending voice notes and pics - it's absolutely normal and both men and women do it. Just be sensible, that's all.

Someone you work with that you’re not actually dating? The odds that he would either share with colleagues or be able to use as a claim that you were sexually harassing him make this something I would never do.

There’s nothing empowering about sending sexual material. It’s risky .

Because its bollocks 🙄

Good lord.💯 he'll share it. With your name.

Imagine HR having to listen to that shit during the sexual harassment case 🤢

I'd put money on you being a man OP, and trying to get cheap thrills from MNers regaling you with their stories of similar exploits. Am I wrong?

Weirder still that so many posters are taking the OP at face value, and aren't suspicious in any way!

I think we should now move over to trying to write, phonetically, the sounds we would make if sending a colleague a similarly intimate voice note.

Like ‘OWWWWWOOOOOH I’M THINKING OF YOU AT THIS SPECIAL MOMENT, BRIAN FROM HR!!!’

Cringe!

It baffles me why so many women find this shit 'empowering'.

Agreed. I've reported but still here.

If you lead with sex, then you are considered cheap sex and will never be viewed as anything more.

Also doing this with a work colleague is beyond stupid. You really think no one else will ever hear about it or see it? Stupid and naive.

I sent this guy an audio clip of myself having an orgasm. I know him in person

Oh thank goodness, because you wouldn't want to come across as weird or anything.

Disgusting,tacky doesn't matter how long you knew him. Get some respect let's hope he ain't sharing it about

Don’t be silly. Having sex with someone early on is a personal choice — for me, it’s a wise move. Ido t want to discover we’re sexually incompatible later on. Having sex almost immediately has never harmed my relationships —I’ve been married for many years to a man I had sex with on our first date.

However, the OP is sending orgasm voice recordings to a colleague. Not even a colleague she’s dating. That is completely different and remarkably dumb.

It's depressing how repressed everyone is here.

😂😂

Well, that was a pretty idiotic thing to do. Really hope you don’t live to regret it.

The opposite of classy and erotic. More like tacky and try too hard.

Or maybe a majority of us have had experience of real life men and how they real life behave 🤔

Let us know how he behaves now, because ime most men rather despise the women who do this/send nudes etc and begin to behave with low level disrespect and contempt towards them with immediate dumping once they've had sex with them.

Disclaimer - not men you're in long term, loving relationships with - but even then I still wouldn't do it!

Or maybe a majority of us have had experience of real life men and how they real life behave 🤔

This.

I'll go against the grain, I've done this with men I've been flirting with and enjoyed it. I don't think " empowered" is the word I'd use but it can definitely be a turn on sharing those kind of audio messages when it's someone you are into sexually. It's intimate but it's not quite as " out there" as a video or a picture. I think it's only wrong if a woman feels pressured into it or are sending it thinking a man is going to fall in love with them just because they've received something so intimate. If it's purely for sexual pleasure and consensual for both sides, what is the issue?

Some of these comments are batshit.