How to experiment with other women but hate dating apps?

[Backtothenineties]

I'm 43 and married but wish I had explored my bi side when I was younger. Husband is happy for me to explore on my own but how do you find other women to meet if you feel too old for dating apps?

Try Feeld.

There’s so many women on here in this situation lately. A disproportionate amount one might say. 🤨

Following! Similar boat

@Backtothenineties You need to get yourself known at a place where women go. Gym or sports club where you shower and change. Do classes so you are part of a 'club' or group rather than random members. Then you belong.
I met someone at a local gallery, we went for a coffee and chatted.
One friend met girls on Feeld. She was successful.

How to meet? It's a common question.
Have you decided what sort of people you would like to meet? Someone like yourself or very different. A 'mumsie' woman or glamorous or very short hair, piercings, chains and biker boots?
Do you want to be yourself or project a new image?

For meetings: If you scroll down this page there are suggested threads to read some with sites and experiences.

Or @ChangingMode could it be there are a lot of women who feel like this and that they see MN as a safe space to ask the question 🧐

Try Killing Kittens. There's a group chat for "Kittens Play" and their Clitoratti parties are exclusively for women.

Or Skirt Club...

Just to say you are in no way too old for the apps! Would suggest just having a look at some.

Or @ChangingMode could it be there are a lot of women who feel like this and that they see MN as a safe space to ask the question🧐

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh bless your naivety. Or maybe you’re just wanting to believe it.

... or awaiting PMs.

@BIWI was that for me? I don't want PMs thanks - just to clarify.

@ChangingMode I don't think I'm being naive - maybe I am. My experience has shown me that lots of women (including me) feel their sexuality is fluid and they become more open to experiencing FF sex/relationships when they get a bit older 🤷🏻‍♀️. Heteronormativity, lack of opportunity, biological urge to settle down - who knows why. It's good to be open minded though surely.

And a very considerable number of women dont feel that their sexuality is fluid and these types of thread are anyway self selecting

interestingly the op has not been back…

To the man that has sent me a PM, due to me commenting on this thread or another on this subject.....FUCK OFF!

Who PM'd you @ChangingMode?!

@BIWI A poster with the username Ramses37. No posting history so presumably a sex board name changer or someone just reading. Told me he’s a man who is watching the women wanting to experiment with other women threads with a creepy smily face. 🤮 Obviously hoping to strike up a conversation. 🤨

Mumsnet have deleted now but I have the screenshots.

No doubt he thinks he's really clever! Silly twat. (Him, not you, obviously! )

Hi I'm the original poster and assure you I'm genuine.

So if she can’t ask here … where can she ask !?

MN is weird sometimes

Hmm. Let me think @Thisisworsethananticpated. I wonder if there are any places on the World Wide Web where someone could find someone else to have sex with?

Despite many posters on this board trying, Mumsnet isn't a place for hook-ups. For any sexual orientation.

well

ill give her the benefit of the doubt 😉

and I’ve been sent sexual
messages from here
just delete em 🤷‍♀️

Report them, then delete them.

Despite many posters on this board trying, Mumsnet isn't a place for hook-ups. For any sexual orientation.

Quite.

There was yet another attempt to start another sex chat thread a couple of days ago. That must be 6 or 7 at least now. 🙄

Out of curiousity is that why people don’t like the sex chat (in sex chat )

I guess so if a woman posting about a sexual issue then gets unwanted messages

i did chat with one guy 🙈
but it wasn’t very inspiring so I left it

People chat about sex. It's a sex topic. However that has allowed some posters to think that they can treat MN as a source of casual hook-ups. Which definitely isn't allowed.