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Massage as forplay

27 replies

Sens · 09/09/2022 10:49

I haven’t seen much here about people giving massage as forplay… Do you do it?


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OP posts:
Namechanged454 · 09/09/2022 10:57

I did for the first time the other day, had a little sachet of Ann summers massage oil so gave my boyfriend a massage...turned into some very hot sex! Have since ordered a bottle of the oil 😂 can't wait for my turn!

DesertOrchi · 09/09/2022 11:38

Yes,lovely,the anticipation........

GentlemanJay · 09/09/2022 18:59

I've been doing Tantric Massages for a while. It's a lovely build up.

PinotPony · 09/09/2022 22:28

Yep. DP is training in sports and exercise therapy so I bought him a massage table for his birthday. Has proved rather useful!

Namechangeforthis9 · 10/09/2022 07:01

Yes we do sometimes...I'm lazy and love massage so it is more often him doing it to me as he is great at it. He takes a long time but I am always in the mood at the end

Reality is massage is very sensuous. I have had them in holiday so already super relaxed. Once had one by a male masseur and was a little uncomfortable at first. He did a good job and occasionally I felt was he too close to vital areas when doing thighs and also back with side boob. However, at the end when getting dressed I found I was extremely wet below. Never confessed that one to my then BF!!!

Sens · 10/09/2022 09:51

We have a massage table and use it alot. Both of us really enjoy getting a good massage and actually need it because of back issues but this always turns slowly into very intimate massages. It is so good then you are being teased by “accidenal” strokes now and then. The sex afterwards is the best!

@Namechangeforthis9
I have often though about this, aren’t everyone a bit aroused after a massage? Was this only because he was close to your private spots or would you have been wet afterwards anyway?

I have often wanered if my wife was wet after professional massage… she must be I think… It would be interesting to hear from you all if normal massage gets you aroused.

OP posts:
EmptyHouse0822 · 10/09/2022 10:02

We did it once with some fantastic oils from Ann Summers but I was so, so relaxed that I fell asleep 😂

We haven’t tried it since!!

Namechangeforthis9 · 10/09/2022 16:27

Sens · 10/09/2022 09:51

We have a massage table and use it alot. Both of us really enjoy getting a good massage and actually need it because of back issues but this always turns slowly into very intimate massages. It is so good then you are being teased by “accidenal” strokes now and then. The sex afterwards is the best!

@Namechangeforthis9
I have often though about this, aren’t everyone a bit aroused after a massage? Was this only because he was close to your private spots or would you have been wet afterwards anyway?

I have often wanered if my wife was wet after professional massage… she must be I think… It would be interesting to hear from you all if normal massage gets you aroused.

If my DH is doing it, the intention is that once he has been doing for 30 mins he will have been getting very close to intimate parts and will gradually become full on etc..

I don't get wet from a normal massage such as I have at my beauticians if I treat myself even though I wear a paper thong and they do go high up. I think it was more this male masseur who was fairly firm with touch but as he massaged me it was almost like he didn't take care to ensure he didn't stray near intimate bits, so when he did my back he did at times brush my side boob but was definitely when doing my low back and going into the top of my bum cheeks and top of thighs when he definately was extremely high up.

I'm still a little bit embarrassed to say I actually enjoyed it and wondered what I would have done if his fingers had gone higher....will never know I guess but I was shocked at how wet I was

Freddy12 · 10/09/2022 18:27

We often massage each other and love it, we massage each other at the same time - we generally concentrate on each other’s genitals, for us olive oil works well and it is always in the house!
we can keep this going for quite some time Mrs f usually cums at least once I generally cum through PIV
sometimes we just treat each other one of us will lay back and the other does the massage, which usually is mind blowing

JulieS1 · 10/09/2022 23:12

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JulieS1 · 10/09/2022 23:18

Namechangeforthis9 · 10/09/2022 16:27

If my DH is doing it, the intention is that once he has been doing for 30 mins he will have been getting very close to intimate parts and will gradually become full on etc..

I don't get wet from a normal massage such as I have at my beauticians if I treat myself even though I wear a paper thong and they do go high up. I think it was more this male masseur who was fairly firm with touch but as he massaged me it was almost like he didn't take care to ensure he didn't stray near intimate bits, so when he did my back he did at times brush my side boob but was definitely when doing my low back and going into the top of my bum cheeks and top of thighs when he definately was extremely high up.

I'm still a little bit embarrassed to say I actually enjoyed it and wondered what I would have done if his fingers had gone higher....will never know I guess but I was shocked at how wet I was

I had a similar experience with a male professional massage. Similar to start with was a bit apprehensive as wasn't expecting a male therapist. (suppose I just assumed it would be female). Hands did wander but not sure if I was being over aware. He didn't touch down below, but came close on the inner thighs and massaging back and side of bum. Body was certainly in the mood after. But one I kept to myself! :)

Samantha87 · 11/09/2022 09:19

Yes once or twice a week at least. We love it. My bf has amazing hands and I'm wet as soon as he puts them on me

Woodsparrow · 12/09/2022 19:47

My husband gives the best massages, sex is fantastic but sometimes the massage would be enough for me, makes me feel so good

Standswitchshelf · 13/09/2022 14:21

First massage I ever had was at a charity Ball I went to with my GF. She won x2 massage in a raffle. The Ball went all through the night. Around 0200 I went to a room with my GF - where she was led into a room by a Man and I was met by a woman in her 20's.

There was a darkened room with a ton of mattresses on the floor. The Massage was clothed so nothing sexy going on really.

But have to admit the woman was amazing. I lay face down and was very relaxed by the touch of her hands on my neck back and shoulders. She was wearing a loose white lacy dress and straddled me as she got to work.

Have to say, I was very very aroused the whole time. When it was over I was in a blissful state for a good hour or so.

Since that experience have had professional massages in great hotels all over the world. Nothing sexy again really. But very good for mind and spirit especially when needing to unwind at the start of a much needed holiday.

Most good Spa hotels ask if you want a male or a female. Have always chosen female. Although have had two massage from Men. Both were far too firm and more painful than relaxing I found.

As one of the posters here mentioned I did wonder if my wife was every turned on from her massage from Male practitioners. I always assumed she would be.

Another friend of a friend was recommended a Male masseur who only did house visits. As she was very into Eastern philosophies and medicines at the time she went ahead and booked. He came recommended from two of her friends

The guy was mid 20's and set up his table, candles, the whole works. She undressed down to her underwear and wore a robe.

He then mentioned that he used a lot of warm oils in the massage and asked her to remove her bra and knickers. He stepped out. So she did.

She said the massage was amazing, he was very good with his hands. Lots of heated oil, scented candles and a bit of chanting. It was new to her and she went with the flow.

Halfway through he asked her to roll over. She had been face down to this point. She was a little self conscious exposing her large oily breasts to him. But again, it was good so far and she went with it.

She said he was just really amazing with his technique and at this point she began to get really turned on. Like, really. He massaged her breasts, gently kneading them and squeezing her nipples. She didn't quite know what to do, but was so turned on and feeling 'in the moment' she wasn't going to stop.

It was a full body massage so his hands went everywhere. She said it was an almost out of her body experience and she was lost in the music that was playing and to the aroma of the candles that were burning.

If massaging her breasts wasn't enough, he was even better around her thighs and intimate area. She said she was more aroused than at any other point in her life, and so relaxed she felt she was in a dream. She said she was dripping with desire, and the warm oils took her to a new place.

He brought her to the edge of orgasm for about twenty miutes and then made her come. She said she exploded in a wave of pleasure and then pretty much fell asleep.

When she woke up, he had all cleaned up and packed his stuff away. She had slept for 15mins but she said it felt like several hours.

She wasn't embarrassed and after he left she phoned her friends who had all had the same pleasurable experience. Said she only saw her once or twice afterwards and it was quite dear and he was booked for months ahead!!

floppybit · 14/09/2022 23:24

@Standswitchshelf do you have his number? 😂

Catullus5 · 15/09/2022 10:53

Sens · 09/09/2022 10:49

I haven’t seen much here about people giving massage as forplay… Do you do it?


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Yep, I did a course and often massage DW. Probably more accurate to say that the massages can become foreplay, sometimes things go no further than massage.

Mummysharkargggggggg · 15/09/2022 19:47

Oooh I love a good massage it makes for an awesome evening every time

NattyNatashia · 02/10/2022 21:09

Personally I enjoy sensual massage not as foreplay but as the main event.Typically with (penetrative) once he's done it's all over :)

itbemay · 04/10/2022 08:50

floppybit · 14/09/2022 23:24

@Standswitchshelf do you have his number? 😂

Wonder if it was Brian from hull Smile

NattyNatashia · 04/10/2022 10:10

itbemay · 04/10/2022 08:50

Wonder if it was Brian from hull Smile

I've seen a few references to hull in relation to massage, I think there must be a private joke I missed :)

HaggisBurger · 04/10/2022 10:21

NattyNatashia · 04/10/2022 10:10

I've seen a few references to hull in relation to massage, I think there must be a private joke I missed :)

There was a guy who used to come on MN quite a while back offering tantric massage and he said he was called Brian from Hull. It was hilarious

Catullus5 · 04/10/2022 10:36

Google "brian from hull Mumsnet" and you'll surely find it.

I'm sure it was a spoof. It was hilarious.

I have to admit that 'Brian from Hull' very much crossed my mind when I read standwichesshelf's post.

NattyNatashia · 04/10/2022 15:28

Catullus5 · 04/10/2022 10:36

Google "brian from hull Mumsnet" and you'll surely find it.

I'm sure it was a spoof. It was hilarious.

I have to admit that 'Brian from Hull' very much crossed my mind when I read standwichesshelf's post.

Ah okay I think I found it, or rather reference to it as I think has been deleted.
It sounds like it was genuine but they probably should have known better than to post about it here with al the repression and judgement.

itbemay · 05/10/2022 09:12

Catullus5 · 04/10/2022 10:36

Google "brian from hull Mumsnet" and you'll surely find it.

I'm sure it was a spoof. It was hilarious.

I have to admit that 'Brian from Hull' very much crossed my mind when I read standwichesshelf's post.

🤣 some of the comments on that thread had me crying with laughter!

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