Female Orgasm help

[ScabbersChin]

Hello. I’m a 40 year old woman with lots of experience and a very high sex drive.

A man has never made me come with out help. What am I doing wrong?

Ive had some amazing partners but it never happens with out me helping or with toys.

Please help

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There's nothing wrong with you. Most women can't come through PIV sex alone and they need some clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Nowt wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️

I've had a lot of sex with different men but there's only around 4 or 5 who were able to make me come. I'm not going to lie, they were the ones with a large penis. And I can come from fingering if they are skilled and I'm relaxed enough. I don't think you're unusual and it's not something you should stress about. I read a thread on here the other day by a woman who's never been able to orgasm at all. I suppose you can't miss what you've never had, but I found that really sad. Have you tried toys while having penetration? Cock rings etc.

The female form is capable of many types of orgasm.

there's the

Nipple orgasm
Cervical orgasm
g spot orgasm
Clitoral orgasm
Vaginal orgasm
Perineum orgasm
Anal orgasm

All of which can induce a full body orgasm

Have you tried experimenting with your partner?

As a couple you could also try OM and tantric somatics.

Do you have any idea yourself why it might be? I'm the same and it's because I can only come using a very specific handshape which different sized hands can't do exactly right, and I need really strong pressure which I find other people can't really do either because their hands seize up by the time I get there. It's a shame, I wish I could just come from oral or something.

Sorry, but no.
please don’t spread such misinformation

I only managed "hands free" with one man and that was because he'd put all his weight on me so his body rubbed against my clitoris. The others always propped themselves up in one way or another, even if I asked them otherwise.

According to stats I found from Googling, around 81% of women can't orgasm through piv alone, so you (and I) are perfectly normal. Don't let anyone make you feel otherwise.

I’ve had “hands free” orgasms in my sleep - they wake me up while they’re still going.

Also had one from nipple stimulation in the past.

I think she meant hands free, meaning she doesn't have to masturbate herself during sex. But yes, I have these too once or twice a year. They are really satisfying I think because they must be taking a long time to slowly build.

Is "CAPABLE"

Can you come from oral? That was only thing that did it for me for years. Somehow I relaxed a bit and sometimes come during sex nowadays

@MrsHarrison87

i agrée !! A large penis is the only way for penetration to orgasm! Hehe

You sound like a creep

I love you too x

Death grip! The OP must be a bad person!

I'm serious, I bet you're a man. And you've come here to tell women how we can have orgasms. In your extensive experience as a mystical sex guru. Well thanks but no thanks buddy.

OP - you're not doing anything wrong. Sounds like you're having orgasms with your partner, albeit as a result of using toys or doing it yourself. Sounds like lots plenty of fun to me!

Your perception is way off, but it's your perception and there's nothing I can do about that except to keep loving you :) x

You sound even more creepy now