Sex Toys and Orgasms

[BetterOrgasms]

Hi,

I use toys often, mostly alone and sometimes with my partner. The orgasms I have from using these are amazing and no man has ever come close. I would like to try and have the same feeling with my partner without using the toys but it doesn’t seem likely. Would it be worth packing the toys away for a few months if I can manage.

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To be honest I think toys will always give better orgasms. It's direct, powerful stimulation on the clit. Penetrative orgasms are something different for me that a vibrator can't do, but clitoral I don't think you can replicate. I can come without, but a vibrator takes it to new heights.

I think oral gives better orgasms than toys every time

I have much better orgasms with my own hands rather than a toy. I find a toy is good and effective for a quick orgasm, it does the job.

But I have the biggest and best orgasms just exploring my own body, touching myself in different places, different positions. I love having the time to take it slow, tease myself, bring myself close and pull back several times. Make that amazing feeling last as long as possible! With a toy, this would all be over so much quicker. I have done this with a partner as well. So yes, maybe put the toys away and try exploring with your and your partners hands. I know everyone is different but I'd say totally worth a try!

@MarianaMassimo We do explore together with both of our hands but the orgasms I have with my toys aren’t anywhere near as good as anything else.

@Furrbabymama87 I agree, the orgasms I get from toys are by far better.

The orgasm I give myself, be it with my hands or my toys, are always better than any orgasm a man can give me.

As a previous poster said, we can have complete control and know exactly what spots to hit and so obviously it’s going to be a lot more powerful and a lot quicker.

Masturbation is God’s greatest gift 😂

"Masturbation is God’s greatest gift 😂"

🤣 I'm with you on that one! Amazing what our bodies can do!

I love that we're all different.

I get great orgasms from my toys.

But when a man hits the right spot again and again and again.

Oh.

My.

Word.