Innie or an outie?

[NilPoisDrama]

I recently learned that only 44% of women have an ‘innie’ where the ‘lips’ aren’t on show. I have an ‘outie’ much like these illustrations and I grew up hating my down below and was really self conscious about it, I am to this day and I’ve been sexually active for years. When growing up all you see are perfect vaginas like ‘innie’ vaginas from porn, etc.

I’m curious, which do you have?

Definitely an outtie for me and partner loves it. I do envy the inners though!!

@Bubblybubblebath

I have an outtie, made even bigger after childbirth. I hate it. Im v conscious about it. In tight fitting clothing it looks like a bulge. Swimwear can be embarrassing. The lips can get caught up in lace underwear. My young son saw me naked and said mummy has a willy like daddy, it hangs down so much. If I could afford surgery then I'd have the lips trimmed.

Oh no that is rough. I've really got an outtie and I'm 12 weeks pregnant at the moment so no doubt mine will be worse also after birth.

I have an innie, DH says it’s very neat and tidy!

I have an outie and was very self conscious about it as a teenager (in the 80s - no access to porn) and it was the reason that I was a very late starter (first sexual experience at 23). My first partner was awful and validated my self consciousness. Then my second partner worshipped me and my outie and from then on I grew to love my bits. Perfectly happy now - even though I'm the only person enjoying it at the moment

I have literally no idea what you ladies are talking about.
As a bloke I really don't care what my partners "bits" look like. I think they're perfect..

But most those that have an innie say they had compliments on it...? Theh they say they're not bothered about how it looks. Of course you're not bothered - yours is all neat

Mine was an outie and I was conscious and I had surgery 10 years ago. It's not the wanted answer but men have commented on it ever since, I've been told it's the nicest one they've ever seen etc. I never had comments before surgery.

it was the best decision for me- it looks really neat and I finally enjoy oral sex and let myself fully go.

@Veronika13

But most those that have an innie say they had compliments on it...? Theh they say they're not bothered about how it looks. Of course you're not bothered - yours is all neat

Mine was an outie and I was conscious and I had surgery 10 years ago. It's not the wanted answer but men have commented on it ever since, I've been told it's the nicest one they've ever seen etc. I never had comments before surgery.

it was the best decision for me- it looks really neat and I finally enjoy oral sex and let myself fully go.

I think @Veronika13 makes a really valid posting. In essence it doesn't matter what us women think, in reality a lot of us are actually bothered what their partner thinks as well. When you have an innie you are not really qualified to say whether you would be happy with an outie.

As I commented earlier my DH has always commented, both in bed and elsewhere how much he loves I have an innie ( didn't call it that). I have now asked him why and he said combination of liking to see it/me naked, is really neat, likes that he sees a neat slit and loves seeing through my knix etc. so opinions of a man

I would hate to think I would have surgery there but I don't think I could rule it out if it really bothered me