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Innie or an outie?

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NilPoisDrama · 29/11/2021 18:38

I recently learned that only 44% of women have an ‘innie’ where the ‘lips’ aren’t on show. I have an ‘outie’ much like these illustrations and I grew up hating my down below and was really self conscious about it, I am to this day and I’ve been sexually active for years. When growing up all you see are perfect vaginas like ‘innie’ vaginas from porn, etc.

I’m curious, which do you have?

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Lovemusic33 · 07/12/2021 08:46

Never really thought much about it. I have a innie and have been told it’s perfect by several men but I’m sure men don’t really care as long as they get to use it 🤣. I’m more conscious about my belly over hang and everything slowly moving south with old age.

MissPC · 07/12/2021 14:46

I’m an innie, tbh I had never heard of outties before reading this, you learn something new every day. No partner has ever commented on the the aesthetics of it either way.

MisterT373 · 07/12/2021 16:27

Hasn't Naked Attraction shown people how different everyone is? Plenty of innies and outies on there.

ChloBows1 · 07/12/2021 16:45

@MisterT373

Hasn't Naked Attraction shown people how different everyone is? Plenty of innies and outies on there.

I imagine not everyone watches Naked Attraction.

Watchingpeppa12 · 07/12/2021 16:47

@MisterT373 definitely not, very few outies on there

MsWalterMitty · 07/12/2021 17:33

Considering outies are more common, there’s a lot of innies on here!

Lovemusic33 · 07/12/2021 17:49

I watch naked attraction, plenty of innies and outies on there but probably more innies, I don’t think it really matters wether there’s more or less outies, I think men like the fact that women’s nether regions are all different the same as we like the fact not all men’s bits are the same.

Wizzbangfizz · 07/12/2021 21:29

I'm embarrassed to admit this but it was only a few years ago I realised there was innies and outies as only have mine and my daughters go go on as I've never seen any different and never really watched any porn! It was only when i caught the odd naked attraction I realised

xprincessxjanetx · 11/12/2021 15:13

I have an innie

Nineteenseventy2 · 11/12/2021 16:39

Innie - have to open legs to see the exciting bits!

Cas112 · 11/12/2021 20:13

I have an innie. But honestly it doesn't matter as long as your happy. I have men friends who tell me they really don't care most of the time the odd one or two say they prefer outies as they have more to 'play' with. It's a shame people get conscious over 'innie or outies' really. I think it's beautiful no one are the same

Maze76 · 13/12/2021 14:05

Innie here, and I’ve never had any complaints! I’m happy with what I have, as should we all, however it never occurred to me that an outie is visible in swimming suits etc.. I’m not sure how I’d cope with that.

EpicDay · 13/12/2021 17:05

Oh my goodness I’m 54 and have had my share of experiences and never knew this was a thing. Nobody has EVER mentioned it. I’m not sure I would really know what I’ve got!!!

Watchingpeppa12 · 13/12/2021 17:18

@EpicDay erm you’d know if you had an outie…

Witchwithacat · 13/12/2021 21:59

@EpicDay

Oh my goodness I’m 54 and have had my share of experiences and never knew this was a thing. Nobody has EVER mentioned it. I’m not sure I would really know what I’ve got!!!

Surely you’ve looked at your vulva before?

Namechanged1010 · 14/12/2021 05:34

@Maze76

Doesn't matter really whether innie or outlie. Both visible if minus hair which a fair number are. However, it isn't easy to see unless lounging on a sunbed in holiday and it's pretty easy to give a glare to some bloke stood at the bottom of your sunbed admiring your innie or outie lol

MadameMonk · 14/12/2021 20:00

Definitely an innie here, with very little inner lips. So is every woman I’ve seen naked in my family. I recall vividly the first time I realised there were other varieties in the wild- at the local pool. It was quite a shock!

I’ve often wondered how different their sex play would be to mine, given there’s so much more surface area to action. Anyone care to tell me if their larger/lower lips play a big part in sensitivity, and/or if they need adjusting in terms of PIV, etc?

How cool that there is so much variety in women’s bodies!

AltitudeCheck · 14/12/2021 20:48

I wonder if there really are more innies on MN as the replies suggest, or if the outies feel some of embarrassment as PPs have mentioned and don't feel quite as brave to respond?

Another outie here just for balance! :)

Sleepyquest · 15/12/2021 12:18

I have an innie. Think my vagina is about the only part of my body I actually like!

Freddy12 · 15/12/2021 21:10

My wife has a lovely innie, for me no real preference
We both are smooth, strong preference for us both as oral feels so much nicer like this

NoHeavenNoMore · 17/12/2021 17:30

@AltitudeCheck

I wonder if there really are more innies on MN as the replies suggest, or if the outies feel some of embarrassment as PPs have mentioned and don't feel quite as brave to respond?

Another outie here just for balance! :)

I agree, seems us outies aren't often as proud 🥲 but I don't know why!

MissCruellaDeVil · 20/12/2021 00:24

I have an innie, never really knew there was such things as outies until I saw naked attraction. (not on purpose may I add)

ChocoholicWineLover · 26/12/2021 10:15

I did a little research after reading this thread. It appears more men prefer a visible labia (outie) more so. Myn has some visible labia, not as shown in the photo though but based on having some visible labia, myn is an outie. Another thing that wanted me to face palm that I came across was some men who think women with outies have had a high number of sexual partners and those with innies are regarded to pre-pubescent or boring. Regardless of what anyone thinks, just be happy with what you have got.

gemsgv · 27/12/2021 18:21

I wonder if this is why when the threads on gussets come up, half the women say they are too far back and the other half say they are the right place

Bubblybubblebath · 28/12/2021 18:15

I have an outtie, made even bigger after childbirth. I hate it. Im v conscious about it. In tight fitting clothing it looks like a bulge. Swimwear can be embarrassing. The lips can get caught up in lace underwear. My young son saw me naked and said mummy has a willy like daddy, it hangs down so much. If I could afford surgery then I'd have the lips trimmed.

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