Remembering your first orgasm

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So last night I was asking my wife is she remembers her first orgasm and she said she doesn’t. I found it very odd. I remember mine pretty well. And it got me wondering if other people remember their first or am I the odd one out?

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I do. I remember what a (pleasant) surprise it was.

I do. It's very odd because I know I was pretty young - not going to say how young as I don't want to encourage any one-handed visitors - and I was already having some very weird fantasies. I have no idea where they came from. It was a year or two before the time when I encountered porn magazines in the bins of a motorway service station, so it wasn't from that.

I remember it feeling amazing and I do remember thinking 'so that's something I can make happen whenever I like? Wow!'

Was more or less the same, I had heard the other boys talking about masturbation at school. And I wasn’t sure of what the point was, that all changed very quickly after my first orgasm.

I'm wracking my brain but can't remember at all. Which is sad in a way.

I absolutely can - it was an achievement!

No, I can't

I can remember the first one I had by myself, and the first one I had with a man. Both were in my late teens and I remember feeling like a proper woman when they happened!

I remember mine. I was 20 and it was unexpected. I didn't like it all that much.

I remember mine. It was a real surprise and quite confusing because it had taken me 5 or 6 years to find it, even though I didn't know I should be looking for anything more.
@PermanentTemporary I know what you mean about weird fantasies. I kept having one that centred around some stuff which I knew absolutely nothing about for another 15yrs.

I can't remember my first solo one, as I was young, but remember well the first one with a lover, as it was also my first time.

Yes I do! I got pretty obsessed and did it all day long for many months!!

Had regular orgasms by myself quite young and my first one during sex the second time I did it, just after he came inside me. Although it was in a condom that just tipped me over into my orgasm, and I've almost always cum straight after the guy, if he's been inside me, ever since.

I was 15 or 16 and I didn't realise what masturbation was until I was reading the problem page of one of my teenage magazines. Some girl was talking about what she did in the shower and I thought wtf? but decided to give it a go myself. Very interesting and fun! I wasted rather a lot of water often in the shower after that, parents banging on the door telling me to hurry up

Yes it involved some helpful anatomical instructions in a teen magazine (the one you moved onto after Just17 … can’t remember the name)

My first one at 20 was in the course of sexual intercourse with my then boyfriend.

I didn't learn diy until I was 24 and going out with my husband; I felt more for him than I had ever felt before and we married the following year.

I always preferred the feelings before orgasm to the actual orgasm and the longer that lasted, the more magical it was.

Happy memories.

HaggisBurger, was it More magazine I remember my older sister getting it with position of the month in it!

Position of the fortnight ;)

I think that was the magazine I was reading too!

Mine was rather strange - climbing up a vertical branch of a tree in my granny’s garden!!! Didn’t know why it had happened, just enjoyed it and tried it another time!

Yes!!! More. That’s the one. I did indeed get More …

Yes I remember my first orgasm that I did myself and then the first one with a man!! Amazing.

I don’t remember, but l was very young (solo) and remember thinking ooooooh, that was special.

I remember when my last one was though 💥.

I actually don't, I just know I was around 19.

Yes! Vividly. I was very young (solo) and didn’t even know what it was. I’d heard about orgasms before but had no idea it would be that intense!!! Very pleasantly surprised. Did it (solo) all the time as a teenager after that. I was older than average losing my virginity, but had been having regular orgasms prior to that.

Yes vividly. In order:

My first solo as a teen.Wow, couldn't believe how nice it was and that I could do it again every day if I wanted!
My first with a partner (fingering). Was quite surprised when it happened but also thought I did it better myself haha.
My first from being given oral (OMG that was bloody amazing. Wasn't the first oral I'd had but this guy was so good at it. Couldn't think about anything else for days.)
My first from PIV, some years after I started shagging, has always assumed that didn't work for me, what a great surprise when it did. Its now my favourite way especially when we climax together and I'm still with the same partner 26 years later!

Still waiting for it to happen