Fisting? Have you ever?

[missmouse101]

This is something that just would do nothing for me. Uncomfortable, rough, painful and really non sensual. Do some women genuinely enjoy it?

There is a sex topic OP

I would happily do this to a man (with his consent and rubber gloves).

That's absolutely fine that it does nothing for you and don't let anyone tell you differently. But that doesn't mean some women dont enjoy it. Safe, sane and consensual is a good motto.

If fisting means what I think it does - isn't lots of damage done to one's botty? Would it be able to work properly afterwards?

Maybe post this in the sex topic

Boak

We're moving this over to the sex topic now.

Anal or vaginal fisting? I’ve done neither and despite having vaginally birthed two children I think I’d hate it in either orifice. Obviously some people like it tho...

It’s probably not what you’re visualising, if you’re imagining a clenched fist anyway. And I guess in porn it’s an aggressive thing but in reality it tends to be built up to slowly, with little movement. So while I would categorically not enjoy someone essentially punching me in the vagina, the reality of it is much more enjoyable.

I’ve not seen it in porn I’ve just seen comedy type fist dildoes and they’re always clenched. I’m pretty sure I will take your word for it on this one being enjoyable. What is enjoyable about it tho?

It's a slow build, lots of lube, very gentle and not really a fist shape, more like all your fingers stretched out then tips put together

Like a shadow puppet bird, @Tyersal?

(No I haven’t).

@name4thesexboard ha ha yes

Yeah, I can’t do that Five Little Ducks song without blushing at the “quack” action 😂

Why is it enjoyable? I suppose it’s similar to women who enjoy sex with a man with a very large penis - except I really don’t like very large penises, too much cervix bashing and it’s all or nothing. I’ve always preferred hands anyway, much more versatile.

My partner has done it with others and he says it's much more gentle than you'd expect, stimulating the inside.

@MandyJane1 stimulating for the guy? Anally ? I’m sorry I’m still slightly confused, are we doing it to guys or having it done to us or both? If someone goes in too wide in any of my holes I don’t enjoy it but pretty sure my bf is able and willing to build up to taking bigger things....

@missmouse101

If they are right about the technique why on earth would anyone bother?

Rectal exam at the doctor's is bad enough?

@outherealone My boyfriend has long, slim hands and has been known to get them right in the front hole, and a good way into the back. These are with previous exes, not me, it doesn't work with me!

jesus

Thanks @MandyJane1 you and your boyf have some very open conversations. I'm not sure I'd be that comfortable with this level of openness regarding sexploits with past partners on either side.
Weirdly I don't mind either of us sharing same sex experiences so much, maybe because they've been more casual than the hetero relationships /sexual encounters

@outherealone well ours is very casual. He never says if someone was good or bad, but he has done it all so sometimes tells me whether this worked before or that worked. I find it interesting how wild people seem to get and push those boundaries. I personally don't enjoy too much going in that way, not for me as makes me feel like I need the loo!

I absolutely love it! Best thing ever.

@Alonelonelyloner . I'm sure you do. I assume you are male?

If you are female and want to know more, read "A hand in the bush". Written by a women for women

www.amazon.co.uk/Hand-Bush-Fine-Vaginal-Fisting/dp/1890159026?tag=mumsnetforu03-21

Bloke here. Was with one lady casually, one finger led to two, two to three, and three to four. Couldn't get a thumb in. Four fingers in, her vagina filled with fluid, a sort of internal squirt. She said she'd never cum so hard. The following day it smelt as if I'd been wanking all weekend.

As things were, and sadly, it was the only time we ever met. Very sad.