Oral with condom

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Now I am a certain age, condoms desensitise me so much BJs are a bit meh. I thought may be lubricant inside the condom might help. Basically, has anyone any suggestions about how to improve it?

Can you not take the condom off for BJ ?

Lose the condom. Wouldn’t dream of giving DH a BJ with a condom on. Can’t see the fun in that for me, let alone him

Condoms are a great idea when having oral sex unless one is in an exclusive relationship where both partners have been tested and found free from STIs. Nasty bacterial STIs thrive in the throat.

Don't think it really works. Poor sensations for both. Better to opt for a handjob.

Lubricant inside a condom...surely it would keep slipping off? I can't think of anything worse to be honest. For me, sucking my DH is spontaneous in bed and moving in between that and other things and going back....helps to stop him cumming too soon as well

I would prob give a miss if you can't do without as the taste would put me off...although can you get flavoured ones?

Of course what he won't get either is the final bit they all crave lol

Doesn't it taste gross? When I've sucked my partner after he's had a condom on it's really yucky.

Never done it @Alonelonelyloner but, I agree with you. Condom’s are horrible but, obviously necessary in a new relationship

No suggestions then?

Unfortunately (for me) simply losing the condom isn't an option - my partner requires me to wear one - no plastication, no mastication. That's fine - she's entitled to her rule. However, giving a BJ is a turn-on for her, and she has expressed some frustration that she can't get me to orgasm by doing it.

A lot of men leak plentiful “fluids” that many of us can’t deal with so prefer him to be covered.

Flavoured ones. Pina colada apparently is ok.

I can't orgasm from a BJ without one, with a condom would be a total waste of time. I'de have to look down to ensure it was happening.

Genuine question: why does she insist on the condom?

Is it the idea of STI's or the ejaculate she has an issue with?

Probably due to the precum

What Grace226 said. And the end product.

Oh ok. I don't know that there's much you can do to resolve that then unfortunately.

Bit strange that she wants to make you cum but doesn't actually like the result of it.

Would she compromise with a mixture of BJ and handjob?

Could she try using flavoured lube so she won't taste the pre cum? Then you warn her before you finish so she can move and use her hand?

Excuse my lack of experience, but how could anyone enjoy either giving or receiving a bj with a condom on?!

I'm sorry to be so direct, but I have to call it. It is absolute madness. No, she is not being reasonable.

And then to reproach you for being unable to be properly turned on by it? What the ...? Who is this harridan?

No no no, she's not being a harridan! She simply doesn't want semen in her mouth - for reasons of taste and hygene I suppose. I get that - I understand it doesn't taste very nice (although I reckon condoms don't either). She's not reproaching me either - it's purely frustration with herself.

Have I really asked the Sex Question for which there is No Solution?

In my honest opinion, and forgive me for getting to the point, she needs to give up on the idea or get over having seamen in her mouth.

It's no different to wanting to go swimming without getting wet.

Hope she can work through it.

She needs to give up on the idea or get over having seamen in her mouth How many at the same time does she have ?

Perhaps Master Bates from Pugwash might know.

I honestly only suck my DH without a condom as the tate nd him cumming is part of the deal. But if that is not an option for you both maybe stop trying for oral and relax and let her masturbate you slowly and enjoy watching her touching? Would that work for you both?

My dp just gives the a signal although I usually know when he's about to cum and use my hand ....because I don't like it ok my mouth either. Easy solution ?

She sounds quite odd