I've never used a sex toy am I missing out on something amazing?

[truelyrubbishmum]

Been with DH 16 years with 2 dc. We have sex regularly and I always orgasm. Following a conversation with friends recently I've started wondering if we should have some sex toys though I am perfectly happy with how things are at the moment. Asked DH and he doesn't see the need and feels it would be like saying he wasn't capable of pleasing me.

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You can but try. I can sort of see yr dh point though if you never have difficulty why reinvent the wheel.

My wife had one and didnt see the point as for her it was no quicker or better than sex/masturbation.

Yes!

It’s not about comparing with partner sex. Both vey different.

It’s not a replacement for your partner it’s in addition to your partner. Get him involved.... there’s a lot of fun to be had

To add, a lot of men can feel threatened by them. Maybe less so if you already own them in your top drawer when the men first arrive on the scene.

With the Durex bullet available in High Street chemists for around £10, what’s to lose? As the old saying goes “You never know what’s round the corner if you don’t go”.

DW would have said the same as you once. Then I bought a cheap vibe as an experiment. I'll just say that it took things to another level.

try a Satisfier Pto 2 , toe curling climax .

Yes! Get yourself over to lovehoney there's a sale on!

I am so very glad I tried sex toys but then I could only come in a way that couldn't be reproduced by a partner. So there was a problem that i wanted fixing.

Tbh apart from the bullet I haven't found anything that truly did it for me but a remote controlled egg was a lot of fun.

Toys are great fun but not essential, to my mind. They add choice.

I have a couple of dildos & butt plugs & we use them from time to time. Sometimes I use them my myself.

I have a vibrator but hardly ever use it, & never with my DP - not sure why, really!

I took my glass dildo on holiday recently - it never came out of its bag in a fortnight, even though it's a favourite, & we had good sex nearly every day.