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Anal.....love it or hate it!?

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Melbabes6 · 05/07/2017 14:58

My husband and I tried anal last night and OMG....it was AMAZING!

He's been a bit down recently and sex has become infrequent so it was a bit of a surprise but it seems to have ignited a spark within us!

Can us females from anal alone!?

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TroysMammy · 05/07/2017 14:59

I find it's a pain in the arse Grin

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 05/07/2017 15:01

If it ignited a spark then you're not using enough lube.

I'm here all weekWink

shivermytimbers · 05/07/2017 15:03

Only in centre parcs

flickerty · 05/07/2017 15:06

(Watching thread as have tried a few times but just can't get it to 'work' without mucho ouchiness)

Bluntness100 · 05/07/2017 15:08

it was a bit of a surprise but it seems to have ignited a spark within us!

Boom boom 😂

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Melbabes6 · 05/07/2017 15:13

Work up to it with fingers first & lots of lube!

One of the best sexual encounters I've ever had 😉

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NotTheFordType · 05/07/2017 16:16

Yeah you need a lot of lube and buy the right kind - anal lube needs to be thicker and have more staying power, since your arse doesn't provide any lubrication itself.

It's great if you have a partner who knows what s/he is doing, as in warms up gently, adds lots of lube, takes it slowly to start with.

The last thing you want is some idiot who doesn't realise porn films have been edited to remove the warm up and thinks he can just start banging like a jack hammer.

DancesWithOtters · 05/07/2017 16:24

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NomDePlumeReloaded · 05/07/2017 17:31

Not my bag, baby.

namechange20 · 05/07/2017 17:39

I was in a very long term relationship and tried it several times and it just never worked and the thought of it didn't interest me. I have a been seeing a FWB for a few months now and we always have anal. He is very very skilled at making me comfortable, he takes things very slowly and it never hurt once. Not even the first time. I didn't know I would enjoy it so much, but with him its so carnal and sensual its amazing. Usually he makes sure I orgasm with vaginal or oral sex first and then we switch to anal. The orgasms are almost continuous and its a totally different feeling to vaginal sex. I love it! I know a lot of people are squeamish about it and I used to be, but for some reason with this guy, its great. It took me a few times before I started to relax and really enjoy it. I sometimes crave it. Sometimes I have to ask him to stop it so intense, but in a good way. Its like getting shivers everywhere.

Tips: you need to prep a bit, use loads of lube (then add more) and make sure the man lets you set the pace. The anal sex we have is not like you see in porn, its usually very slow. Don't move from anal back to vaginal and use condoms.

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Melbabes6 · 05/07/2017 18:55

Has anyone orgasmed from anal alone?

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namechange20 · 05/07/2017 19:17

I do. But only in some positions I think when it hits my gspot at the right angle. Body tingling all over orgasms that last for ages (slow building). Sometimes I need a bit of assistance ;)

TheNaze73 · 05/07/2017 19:44

I got introduced to it by an older partner, 20 odd years ago. She was really into it but, I could take it or leave it. Having seen how intense the orgasms are for women through it, I'm more than happy to partake as every woman since has wanted it.

FatLittleWombat · 05/07/2017 19:49

I love it, but don't often feel like it as it needs a bit of preparation. We do it maybe 5 or 6 times a year. The orgasms are amazing!

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Melbabes6 · 05/07/2017 20:34

namechange20
What positions are good for hitting the right spot!?

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SongforSal · 05/07/2017 20:39

No! Ew. If a poo covered Penis and anal tears/piles are your thing. Then by all means. Rock out with your cock out.

namechange20 · 05/07/2017 21:36

Melbabes6: well spooning for me is effective or face down flat on the bed is cool ;) I guess our gspots are all in slightly different positions so experiment :)

Songforsal: no poo covered penis here yet, or piles/ tears.

KumquatIsMySafeWord · 05/07/2017 21:50

I hate it. Which is unfortunate for DH as it's his ultimate fantasy, but no matter how many positions and techniques we try it always feels horrendously uncomfortable.
I quite like a finger or 2 just not the full cock.

namechange20 · 05/07/2017 21:54

Kumquat: if you hate it and don't want to do it, then don't. But did you use loads of lube? And just keep him there for a few minutes not doing anything, slowly, slowly. Its a real skill for a man I think. They have to be very good at reading you, I think that is what makes it so intimate. Like marmite i guess.

ImAFurchester · 05/07/2017 21:55

Grim.

PickAChew · 05/07/2017 21:56

Exit only.

KumquatIsMySafeWord · 05/07/2017 22:09

name change Yes always use loads of lube, tried going slow, lost count of how many times we've tried it tbh, but it always feels uncomfortable. I guess it's just not for me.
And yes I probably shouldn't do it then. I always swear never again but I think after enjoying a finger or 2 I seem to think this time it'll be great rather than Shock

SleepingTiger · 06/07/2017 18:18

The closest to anal sex I ever intend to go is canal sex. PIV on a barge.

passmethewineplease · 06/07/2017 22:20

Sleeping Grin

I'm so tempted to try this bit I'm also scared it'll hurt. Blush also I have to ask.. . Does it not just feel like you're doing a poo when he is pulling out? Blush

Happiness2017 · 07/07/2017 14:53

Yes!

For me, it has to come with good sex first. Super hot sex!

Its such a different sensation to sex, some nights it hurts but it doesn't for very long.

Definitely doesn't feel like a poo when he is pulling out, but the first time you poo after might feel a bit strange Wink

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