So what's the equivalent of 'fingering' now?

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When I was a teenager in the 80's it was all about boys wanting to 'finger' you.

And by 'finger' I mean shove their finger in and wiggle it around randomly

I remember no clitoris action, no one tried to get me to suck their cock, no one was shagging in my huge group under 16.

It was just the snogging (lots), tit feels, and the finger. Along with a bit of frottage.

Have you seen the Mickey Flannagan thing about the demise of fingering? Made me - and actually food for thought

www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=finger%20blast

If you watch any trash reality tv then you will know it is not in demise

There was no internet porn in them days! They probably expect deep throating and double penetration now!

Also a teenager in the 80's, blow jobs were called gobbles, and all the boys thought they were the holy grail.

I believe it is a phrase still used often. When my son stuck up two fingers to me the other day in a rage I said to him angrily (and erroneously) "stop fingering me!" Cue much giggling, embarrassment and laughing from both DCs

I'm 4 years out of secondary school and fingering is still a known term just considered very crude (mainly used by boys who want a giggle)

Tbh I don't know the current term

I remember my first time on the receiving end. It was winter in a park! How romantic! His hands were that cold it was like having a McCain oven chip shoved up my vag!!!

McCain oven chip

I was also pondering yesterday the demise of love bites (/hickeys/spammys/other regional word for them).
Much like white dog poos, you never see them anymore.

It's definitely fingerblasting. I don't know if that's better or worse tbh.

Frottage?! What's that?!

No it's not in demise my 12 year old dd came home and told me about a boy fingering her friend who didn't like or want it.
Yep, another call to school CP officer who must think I'm either a wannabe CP or nosey cow.
You can't let that go though, can you.

I thought it was finger banging.

My nephew had a love bite the other weekend so they're not completely dead, Leccybill don't worry.

Frottage is "dry humping"; rubbing bits together while fully-clothed.

"Finger banging" sounds rather violent and not quite safe

Fingering is still a thing.

So is motorboating.

What is motor boating?

Someone told me that they had fingered someone in a club the other week.

What the hell ?

I think they still do fingering in The Imbetweeners...

Finger blasting. Foul!

Also a teenager in the 80's, blow jobs were called gobbles, and all the boys thought they were the holy grail

Eeeee I haven't heard that in years, takes me back

"Gobbles" LOL

Takes me back as well

Motorboating is where you put your face between someone's cleavage and make a raspberry sound while shaking your head which is meant to sound like a motorboat.

Anyone remember the term 'back-wrapping' ? Never did quite get what was meant at the time, I think I've worked it out since though.

We are in our 40s, been together ages and still do it - same word. I like it on the sofa as a prelude to going upstairs for a full on shag. The good thing now is that there are no interruptions. Very occasionally I even cum if he does it right - before we even get to the bedroom