So what's the equivalent of 'fingering' now?

[GeneralBobbit]

When I was a teenager in the 80's it was all about boys wanting to 'finger' you.

And by 'finger' I mean shove their finger in and wiggle it around randomly

I remember no clitoris action, no one tried to get me to suck their cock, no one was shagging in my huge group under 16.

It was just the snogging (lots), tit feels, and the finger. Along with a bit of frottage.

I've just enjoyed a very satisfying "thumbing"

And your first thought was to tell the internet? Awesome

I thought finger blasting was when you do that shooting pistols cowboy movement

I am still laughing at the McCain chip comment.

I'm 26 and 10 years ago it was still in the popular domain.

Yes to the boys being rubbish at it too men not much better

Nosh was the term for a blowjob when I was at school, still makes me giggle now if I ever hear the term

Ha ha "sucked off" was the term when I was at school. I was always confused by "blow job" when it came in.
And cunninlingus was getting "licked out"
Classy.

Not my very first thought gamer

Nah the thought tickled me

Me too

I still get fingered regularly (by DP, not strangers )

To be honest I find it a bit pointless & doesn't do much for me these days but it's become habit/ritual!

In Scotland it's quite often called being poked!

Much hilarity when Facebook was first around and poking was all the rage lol

oh god i remember 'licked out' too - not that any boys did it.

'head' was the unisex term.

I remember being very confused at school when someone said that a boy had given someone a pearl necklace. I worked out in the end what they meant but thought it was disgusting! I think they were only saying it to wind me up because I was so naive!

Yes! Poked was the word of choice round these parts too (arf)
Doesn't sound massively appealing. .

God yes fingering was a right of passage back in the 90's. It was all BJ's and licking out. Lovely

I remember boys used to spend ages kissing your ear mid snog session, it was bloody awful, you'd end up with a cold, damp ear. Was this actually meant to do anything? Does it still happen?

Never heard gobbles! we called it 69.

My DD told me (at 13!) that a girl and boy in her year were doing 69 and when I knew what she meant she texted all her friends to tell them 'my mum knows what 69 is!'

Finger banging/blasting

Blowjobs are 'suck me off', 'give me head' or 'brain' .

Brain just makes me giggle it sounds ridiculous.

Was called 'fingering' where I'm from, 'Blow job' or 'BJ' and a condom was a'FL' (short for French letter?) and cunninglus was called a 'Muff dive'...I
Was a teenager in South Africa (so fortunately due to a warmer climate no McCain incidents )

It's all about bean flicking these days & finger blasting. Delightful turns of phrase....