Best method for clean sex when I'm on my period - any advice

[4inchheels]

Sorry if this is TMI, or slightly off topic but I'm after some practical advice about soft tampons or anything better.

I have a new man and not seen him for over a week because he has been away on business - he gets back on Saturday and I'd really like to DTD - but I'm due on any day now.

I'm not wanting to start a debate about doing it being icky and smelly or OK not OK and that men should not be squeemish. We will be doing it in his bed and any mess will put me off and I know that it is not really his sort of thing.

Do soft tampons such as www.gynotex.com/ really work? What is the risk of leak or smell? Are they good enough to let him go down on me? Any positions to avoid?

My flow is likely to be heavy-ish (Tampax Super lasts about 4 hours if you get what I mean). He is quite big and we use condoms if that makes any difference.

How long will a soft tampon hold back the tide and will he feel it?

Thanks for any advice from users.

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You do seem a sex negative harpy then, dame ?

You really should tell the truth. I do.

I've already said what I see.

Nothing's going on

It's not about how much you love sex on your period, fuck

Apparently I am not allowed to ask the op any questions at all

The one that started the thread....remember her ?

There is something going on, dame

You're obviously not here to be helpful, so why bother?

Who knows if it's a red flag ?

No one is allowed to probe further. So we will never know.

Right ?

is something going on, dame

Not as far as I'm concerned.

Sorry, made that a link instead of bold

I'll tell you what

When I post here (in absent minded assumption this thread was in relationships which is my usual hangout) my input boosts the post count....

Sex in the shower or bath

Wow AF. Drama queen today? A woman wants to have sex whilst on her period but doesn't want it to be so messy. Looking for tips on how to make it not so messy seems reasonable to me.. why is that then turned in to her wanting to erase any sign of it. Sometimes you are too extreme.

What a celebrity you are AF...

No, just stating a fact

The majority of responses on this thread have been telling me how wrong I am.

Yeah...

Yeah

Yeah!

Personally I don't get the allure of having sex on my period....the mess and cramps are just two things that put me. The smell bothers me too. But hey whatever floats your boat

Reading that someone's husband loves to go down on her during her period made cringe slightly as I did find that gross. Sorry..

Obviously I have no advice as I've never done it but good luck

Yeah but no but