Kinksters?

[OpiesOldLady]

Following the fisting thread, i was wondering if there's any other kinksters out there that fancy a natter?

I'm of the more kinkier variety :)

Me

What are we going to natter about?

As the OP of the fisting thread, I'm feeling a little reluctant to share my actual perversions right now. Fisting's pretty much vanilla isn't it? At least the link to sexual gratification is fairly obvious.

But you know, you can start a thread on the normally quiet sex board and next thing you know it's got 160-odd (and some of them ate very odd) replies.

So I reckon I'm keeping schtum about my kinkiness for now.

Is it supposed to be the case that sex threads don't show in 'active' and therefore don't attract the pearl clutchers?

If so...MNHQ has a tech glitch as this one is up on 'active' on the app too...

I think so. Posters were all "It came up on Trending! Of course I clicked on it! I didn't expected all this!"

It still said "sex" and "fisting", you dingbats. What did you think it was going to be about?

Not that I'm trying to derail your thread, OP. Get back to your kinkery, kinksters.

I wouldn't call fisting 'vanilla'. Definitely niche market stuff.

Don't be daft, i don't expect you to tell me all your kinks, i just wondered how you incorporated your kinks into your daily lives? Is it strictly bedroom only or do you live it all the time? Do you go to munches or fetish nights? Do any of your friends/family know?

I'm asking here i suppose as although I'm on Fet, I'm finding most of the people on there just want random hook ups or plays and not proper conversations about this kind of thing. Maybe i'm looking in the wrong places though?

Opies If I'm being really honest, I don't think the internet is really the place for that type of conversation. I think there's too much risk of it being a troll or a weirdo it turn disturbing or whatever, and so people tend to have that type of conversation with their friends in real life.

I think online only tends to come into it if it's something really out there, or people want an audience or a hook up.

Stumbly and Venus If they didn't show in active, nobody would see them. 99% of MN traffic is from active. People just need to be intelligent about titles and look at what topics things are in if they are easily offended.

Very few genuine people will search out the sex board so conversation will be hugely stifled if it doesn't appear in active. I'm not too bothered about trending.

I wish the pearl clutchers would just hide the Sex Topic from their Active threads.

Depends what you call kinky. Doing sexing with the lights on would be kinky for some.

I'm on FL. My description there is "spankee". It used to be "masochist" but then they added more descriptions. I am not really comfortable with the term "submissive" although I recognise that lots of what I get up to could be considered D/s. I am happy to chat about it.

Hey Venus, I saw your other thread and wasn't in the least surprised by the pearl clutchers indignation, it's what they do. As you say, the thread topic and title rather gave the game away before they clicked on it.

Kink... we've tried BDSM, but I'm not in the least sub and Mrs Eek just isn't sub enough, although she does love a bit of spanking now and again. And her nipple clamps. And a dose of DP occasionally, although using a dildo, not a third party; that is her choice, not mine, I'd be up for a guest to join us but it's not on her list of things to do.

But we do both like the thrill of exhibitionism, we've played in some very risque places :)

Care to share? Me and my current person had a train carriage all to ourselves the other night. He's paranoid about the CCTV. I say they only look at that if complaints are made.

My DW and I have a D/s dynamic but applies solely in the bedroom. We use a wide variety of toys.

Sadly, Fet has gone downhill in recent years, it used to be a wonderful site for cultivating conversational relationships with no pressures to progress to sex and simply about enjoying the company of like-minded people online and off. As you portrayed, it's now a site catering to hookups really - perhaps a sign of the times, but we really seldom visit anymore. There's still some amazing threads but these are the exception rather than the norm.

OP, your fisting thread was entertaining to read. I wonder what people expected to find in there. It would likely be the same with a thread entitled "Squirting" et al!

Oh sorry op, of course you didn't make the fisting thread. I'm tired and not slept yet...

Veteran pervert here. 25+ years on and around the fetish scene. Thought I had seen it all but have recently discovered something new that I am getting a fascinated by...

Something new?

I'm an ageplayer and have a maths fetish.

Ghetto that's a brave thing to admit to on mumsnet.
How does the math fetish work?

I can orgasm from reading equations. Not a maths troll, honestly.

That's quite amazing. The mind is a powerful thing.

I'm also poly, and domme.

I would suggest a little fet group but my child filters have blocked the site!! hence why I now frequent mn as I needed a new addiction

I met my dh on fet

Dione, something new to me. Other people have been doing it for a long time. I knew other people did it, but had never been that bothered myself.

(and before anyone gets themselves too freaked out, I'm talking rope bondage, not anything really niche...)