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Kimberley00001 · 25/06/2015 19:59

Hi , I recently slept with someone who i know quite well NSA etc etc...
The whole thing has left my spider senses tingling I did enjoy it don't get me wrong but I not sure if this is normal .
I havent had many partners but this is the first time I've felt like questioning the things we did.
A few things stand out , the first one him shouting out cum on my big dick !! ( sorry to be so graphic!) it put pressure on me and I didn't like that .
He took ages and I mean ages to cum, like maybe over an hour all different positions .
And it was quite rough which I did like at first, but he was also rough with his hands and when he went down on me, he went hard and fast.
When he finally did cum , it was only when he was tied up and I was spitting in his mouth and choking him till his eyes watered.
This isn't a joke thread I promise , just looking for some opinions on this.thanks

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gamerchick · 25/06/2015 20:02

Normal is as normal does.

Not my cup of tea what you've described tbh and if you're not comfortable doing it then don't.

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StrawberryMouse · 25/06/2015 20:03

Not really normal for me either. Grin

Sounds like he might have some er specialist requirements?

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mrsdavidbowie · 25/06/2015 20:04

Well he sounds like hard work.
Hope that wasn't His idea of a quickie.

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KatoPotato · 25/06/2015 20:08

Bloody hell... Was the eventual spitting etc after the hour of thrusting? Was there discussion of how this would unfold?

Spider senses? Oooft...

Question is, did you enjoy it?

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Earthbound · 25/06/2015 20:08

He sounds like a man who has a serious porn habit.

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DoTheDuckFace · 25/06/2015 20:10

Sounds like he has very particular kinks, if you don't enjoy it, don't go there again.

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Kimberley00001 · 25/06/2015 20:13

Yes the spitting was after Id say 90 mins of doggy, me on top him on top , I enjoyed it yes but I was a bit sore the next day .... I wanted to do it with him I knew what he liked so I was informed .

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Kimberley00001 · 25/06/2015 20:14

It was just a bit more hardcore than I was expecting..

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NoArmaniNoPunani · 25/06/2015 20:18

I wouldn't consider that particularly hard-core. I'm not sure what you're wanting from this thread.

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AnyFucker · 25/06/2015 20:20

Christ, that sounds like hard work

are you expected to keep that up every time ?

I'd rather have a nice cup of tea and I'm not actually a sex dodger myself

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Quiero · 25/06/2015 20:25

I'm not sure what you want us to say. It's only not ok if you think it's not ok. It's not up to us to define your boundaries.

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Kimberley00001 · 25/06/2015 20:28

I was physically exhausted after. Tbh I was wondering more about the time it took for him to orgasm than the kinks as such. I was fine with doing it all , im just not very experienced.

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mrsdavidbowie · 25/06/2015 20:36

I would have been making shopping lists.
It sounds quite dull and all about him.

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Goodbetterbest · 25/06/2015 20:46

Doesn't sound like much fun to me. Inconsiderate, selfish and a bit unimaginative. I'd rather have a bit of intimacy with my sex - just because it's NSA doesn't mean it has to be without intimacy.

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JohnFarleysRuskin · 25/06/2015 20:47

My goodness.
I couldn't be arsed with all that. You had to shag him for 90 minutes then choke him to get him to orgasm? Did you get anything out of this - other than thrush?
Things have changed.

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GingerCuddleMonster · 25/06/2015 20:48

it's not my cup of tea and I'd probably get bored after about 30mins of thrusting and tell him to finish himself off, but that's just me Grin

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Kimberley00001 · 25/06/2015 20:48

I think you've hit the nail on the head Goodbetterbest, there was no intimacy, only a bit of kissing at the start ( which was like he was trying to eat me ,but It did turn me on )

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Goodbetterbest · 25/06/2015 20:49

I hope you peed afterwards and drink plenty of water. That's a recipe for a UTI.

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JohnFarleysRuskin · 25/06/2015 20:52

'I was fine doing it all' is such a meh approach. You know you can have your own desires and boundaries right?
You don't have to go along with what this chump thinks is sexy.

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paxtecum · 25/06/2015 20:54

That does sounds quite exhausting.
I think having sex only like that would get extremely tedious very quickly.

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Kimberley00001 · 25/06/2015 21:18

Yeah I peed after and drank lots, I did enjoy it but no way could I do that every time. I think he's too used to his right hand to last for all that time.

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pocketsaviour · 25/06/2015 21:41

I think the fact it took him ages was because his real desire is to be dominated, but he's uncomfortable with that, so felt he had to prove he was a "real man" beforehand by shagging you roughly and shouting ridiculous porny phrases ("Cum on my big dick"? I don't know how you kept a straight face!)

It does sound very tiring and not very fulfilling to me. If you feel it's not for you, just don't see him again.

BTW have you done breath play before?

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Kimberley00001 · 25/06/2015 21:49

I don't know how I kept a straight face either ???? it wasn't that big ....no breath play is a new one for me !

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Lagoonablue · 25/06/2015 22:04

God I lead a sheltered life! Each to their own but doesn't sound like my idea of fun!

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AyMamita · 25/06/2015 22:25

Oh god porn chat during sex is so ridiculous. I went out with a guy who was really into it and I used to have to hide my face in the pillow so he wouldn't see me laughing at him Grin

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