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if you and your partner enjoy risky sex..

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flanjabelle · 23/06/2015 17:47

How do you go about it?

Both me and dp get off on the idea of risky sex but have only managed it three times in the time we have been together. (Bj in the car, sex in the car, sex on a balcony)

We are both a bit worried about being arrested/shouted at for being innapropriate, but it is a real turn on for both of us.

If you are the sort who also enjoy and manage to achieve it, could you give me some tips? Where? How? Ever been caught??

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LadyFuckrington · 23/06/2015 17:50

Sometimes, when we're feeling adventurous, we do it with the lights on.

V v risky. No chance of hiding my paunch or hairy nipples.

Does that help?

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flanjabelle · 23/06/2015 17:52

No, but thank you for trying and sorry to hear about your hairy nipples!

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BadgerOfHonour · 23/06/2015 17:52

The worry of knocking my pop and biscuits over adds to the frisson in our house.

Fatstacks · 23/06/2015 17:53

Dogging.

You don't even need a dog.

Keep an eye out for Terry.

nilbyname · 23/06/2015 17:54

I find doing it on a weekday really spices things up.

RepeatAdNauseum · 23/06/2015 17:55

Surely none of those things are risky? They all sound pretty normal to me, especially the car stuff.

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flanjabelle · 23/06/2015 17:57

as I posted on the other thread about vanilla/kinky I'm pretty vanilla so sorry if it's not classed as risky. I mean out of the home, in a place where there is the chance of being caught sort of sex.

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flanjabelle · 23/06/2015 17:58

Oh dear am I going to have to nc after this?

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girlandboy · 23/06/2015 18:09

Ok then! Many many many years ago I gave my DH a bj in the car. I can vividly remember it. It was in a lay-by on the Isle of Wight in the middle of the day in a fairly secluded spot. I say secluded because it wasn't exactly bang right at the side of the road, but a few feet further back.
All was going well until a coach party drove by. I don't think we were spotted but DH did attempt to cover me with his arms

So in answer to your question of "did we enjoy it?" DH...probably, he didn't say otherwise. Me...no, I was far too self-conscious of being spotted. And frankly I think I was right!

notthestereotype · 23/06/2015 18:46

Ah, this is a tricky one, because you're getting off on the fact you might get caught, but don't actually want to get caught....yes?

My best suggestion would probably be sex in a bathroom cubicle (a nice posh one of course ) because then it's in a public place, so you've got the thrill of doing something 'naughty', but there's no real threat of actually being caught.... in the act anyway. It may be pretty obvious when you both emerge all flustered and disheveled

Me and my GF used to have sex in the car all the time when we were first together, but that was more for practical reasons (loooong story). We did get caught once, but to my surprise DP was actually more angry than anything I was quite embarrassed, but DP was just annoyed we didn't get to finish! We laugh about it now, a lot. I still remember the look on this old truckers face! I hid in the foot well, even though he'd just seen us! So I must have looked like a right dick.

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flanjabelle · 23/06/2015 18:50

Yes that is the issue exactly! thank you very much for your advice!

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Nevergoingtolearn · 23/06/2015 19:05

There are many places that are slightly risky but not much chance of being caught, obviously it depends where you live and how good you are at not getting caught.

When I was a teen I got caught in a field , farmer pulled up in his Land Rover, he was holding a air riffle so we quickly moved.

If you have woodland near you it's quite easy to do it there as long as it's not too close to a footpath, the beach if you have a beach shelter and wind shields ( not a busy beach though ). I don't think I would want to do it in a public toilet, not very hygienic how ever posh it is.

StaircaseAtTheUniversity · 23/06/2015 19:11

Gave a blowjob to a boyfriend in the cinema once. We were the only people in an afternoon showing of some dodgy romcom. Thought we were totally alone until the deed was done and I noticed a lone cinema worker, sitting at the back eating a packet of sweets.

And I've never returned to the Ilford odeon

Theoldcauliflower · 23/06/2015 19:33

On a double decker bus when I was a 17, the top deck was empty and we were drunk so totally forgot there's a mirror at the front for the driver to keep an eye on the upstairs

vodkanchocolate · 24/06/2015 18:11

I wouldnt say we are purpously risky but back in our dating days we did get upto a lot of car fun we know some good spots, and also know a few spots in woods and behind some cliffes. We occasionaly if child free go visit the spots relive our younger days :)

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WhirlpoolGalaxyM51 · 24/06/2015 18:52

You need to head off into the countryside don't you?

I did a fair bit of random places when a teen as there's nowhere to go is there when everyone lives with their parents! I wouldn't fancy it now TBH, all a bit uncomfortable

ouryve · 24/06/2015 18:57

Well a bus is definitely risky, these days. They all have cameras, now - some even display on a screen for other passengers to see :o

bgottalent · 24/06/2015 19:09

When in my early 20s I was bullied by my exbf to wank him off while he was driving. Did it loads of times. What was I thinking I hated doing it and it was dangerous.

Waggamamma · 24/06/2015 19:22

Early in our relationship dp and I did it in all sorts of places, car a few times, benches in public parks (at night), by a river, handjob on a train, cinema fumbles...

We'd like to do it again but there are too many risks for us now . if we get caught our jobs would be at risk (sex offenders register), we have two young dc and rarely have a babysitter and my sex drive has disappeared.

bgottalent · 24/06/2015 19:40

Sex offenders? I don't understand.

Waggamamma · 24/06/2015 19:42

If you get caught doing a sexual act in public you can be put on the sex offenders register. As I need a disclosure check for my job I would be sacked instantly. I'm pretty sure of this but let me check my facts.

WhirlpoolGalaxyM51 · 24/06/2015 19:45

I think you'd be unlucky to be prosecuted if you weren't doing it on purpose where you expected to be seen / were hoping to be seen etc.

Still not worth the risk though obv if it's a job like that.

TinyManticore · 24/06/2015 19:47

'And I've never returned to the Ilford odeon' made me snort Hell of an ending to a story

Waggamamma · 24/06/2015 19:49

Yes,my understanding is it could well be classed as 'indecent exposure' and if convicted you would be on the sex offenders register. Obviously this has some serious repercussions.

www.scotland.police.uk/about-us/police-scotland/specialistcrime-division/national-offender-management-unit/sex-offenders-register

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