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if you and your partner enjoy risky sex..

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flanjabelle · 23/06/2015 17:47

How do you go about it?

Both me and dp get off on the idea of risky sex but have only managed it three times in the time we have been together. (Bj in the car, sex in the car, sex on a balcony)

We are both a bit worried about being arrested/shouted at for being innapropriate, but it is a real turn on for both of us.

If you are the sort who also enjoy and manage to achieve it, could you give me some tips? Where? How? Ever been caught??

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WhirlpoolGalaxyM51 · 24/06/2015 19:53

Yes totally Maggamamma I'm surprised that anyone is surprised that it's illegal to have sex in public!

There are crimes in England as well called things like "Outraging public decency" I'm sure there's plenty they could get you with if they were so inclined.

Like I say I like to think that if you were well out of the way and not wanting to be seen they'd let you off with a warning but yeah I wouldn't be risking it in a job like that either.

Well aside from the fact that I wouldn't fancy it at all these days anyway but you get my drift!

Actually maybe somewhere warm. We did do it in a pool on hol (semi private and v late at night) but that was some years ago now!

Outwith · 24/06/2015 19:57

Bloody hell Rachy, that's it - I am never getting in a communal hot tub .

RattleAndRoll · 24/06/2015 20:00

Oh me and DH tried the car stuff once. It was his burrfday..
We pulled into a secluded lay by down a country lane late at night. Just started kissing. A car pulled up right beside us and they were staring at us so we left them there and drove off. So then we found a country park so parked in the car park and started kissing again. Then a police car() came into the car park and pulled up next to us to ask what we were doing. When they figured what it was , one officer said go home and do it, the other said if you are going to do it go somewhere busier as anything could happen to us in such a secluded place . Well we went home after all that.

WildDaysPast · 25/06/2015 10:53

In my twenties I went out with a wild woman. She didn't drive and I am not sure she understood people outside could see into the car . She would often give me a BJ while driving (even in the daylight). I cant even remember all the places she gave me a BJ.

I often wonder how we didn't get caught and how many sureillance videos we are on. We had sex in toilets loads of times, pubs, clubs, college, hotels. Done it a a store room and in the carpark in hotel.

In fields.

We did it leaning against a wall of a single storey hotel by the bedrooms. Inches from the window of a guest room, with the light on. We could hear the TV

She picked my up at the airport once, drove to the top level of the carpark and gave me a BJ. I have since learned each Christmas the security staff have a video complilation of all the goings on, over the year

We drove to a well known lovers car park once. Parked about 20 yards from another car with a guy in it. Then we realised he was having a BJ, so I had one and me and the guy kept putting out thumbs up to each other .

We had people round for dinner at her house, she asked me to help with something in the kitchen. We did it in the kitchen while the guests waited for the next course (that is a good memory).

Weirdly the other thing she liked was giving a BJ while I was on the phone. I used to have work calls and she would be going for it.

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flanjabelle · 25/06/2015 14:06

Oh goodness I dont want to be on the sex offenders register. I think I might put this on the back burner.

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NotAMamaYet · 25/06/2015 15:35

I wouldn't consider myself a risk taker when it come to sex but I give my boyfriend Bj's all the time in the car!!!? Especially on long journeys he alllllways asks, although he seems more nervous than me

Recently went on holiday and did it in the sea... Broad daylight but on a v secluded beach..

(I sound so scuzzy!)

yougotafriend · 25/06/2015 16:11

I would not have considered myself particularly risky but when stbxh & I were "courting" and both living with parents a certain amount of adventurousness was needed.

Car
Hand job whilst driving
In kitchen with parents in next room
Sand dunes (not recommended - ouch)
In the sea

GnocchiGnocchiWhosThere · 25/06/2015 16:19

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MissMooMoo · 25/06/2015 16:55

dp and I have done it in a few of the royal parks but thats about it. Loving the comment about the Ilford cinema, its my local one too

Redandtingling · 27/06/2015 13:18

On the top step of a fire exit in Worcester.

ovaryhill · 27/06/2015 20:14

The idea of dogging really turns me on but I would be too scared to try it for real

Eekaman · 28/06/2015 06:23

Mrs Eek is a bit of an exhibitionist, so there's been loads of discreet public sex over the years.

One night, at a birthday party at a Premier league football club in one of the function rooms, I wandered off to find a loo, instead I found an unlocked hospitality box, so I went back to the party, grabbed Mrs E and off we went.

There was a lovely big wooden table and big leather armchairs there, so we used the facilities :) Mrs E was in a little black dress and stockings, so no need for a lot of undressing. We had a terrific session, lots of positions, really going for it.

The next evening, in our local, we were told there were security cameras throughout the club and that a couple had been recorded and the tape was going to be played later in the pub, on screens all around the room. Sounded like fun.

Yes. It was us, in slightly grainy, black and white footage, but definitely us. You couldn't see anything too closeuppornstylee graphic detail, but you could see more than enough. :) We got a lot of compliments from all sorts of people, and we got the tape too.

UnknownMoniker · 28/06/2015 08:21

If you want the risky feeling, try going out with your dp in a skirt and no knickers, (not a maxi) it will probably arouse both of you walking about in public like that.

Redandtingling · 28/06/2015 12:46

Or wear some knickers and a skirt, go to the ladies, remove the knickers, come back and put them discreetly in his pocket.

Every time he puts his hand in his pocket you are guaranteed he will get an erection, and every time you see him put his hand you will be turned on massively.

ExConstance · 30/06/2015 10:48

My naughtiest sex ever? In my 20's I was one of the court duty solicitors at Waltham Forest magistrates court. The duty solicitor had a little room with a window that had a venetian blind and there was a catch type lock on the door, with a keypad outside ( because we left our lunch etc. in there) The potential clients used to line up on a bench outside and wait to be seen.

At the time I had a sort of FWB relationship with another solicitor who was rather wild in his ways. On this particular day he came striding into the room, where I was seeing a client, clutching a lot of files. He said he had something very important and needed to talk to me immediately , so could the client go out. Door was duly locked and there was a bit of fast and frantic action against the wall, clothes adjusted, next client seen. Not very good sex but the thrill was enormous! I had a huge smile on my face all day.

frikadela01 · 30/06/2015 22:53

Right at the end of central pier at Blackpool.... I was bent over one of the benches and it was bloody freezing. I was pulling my knickers up just as an elderly couple walked round the corner.

I've also found woods to be terrific places but we always go middle of the week when there's less chance of families being around

Redglitter · 01/07/2015 07:19

I've had sex in some outdoor places and some relatively risky.

we had risky potentially public sex yesterday morning Wed taken precautions to minimise the risk but the fact that we could possibly get seen/caught was a real turn on

LineRunner · 01/07/2015 13:04

Crikey. I have outraged public decency quite a lot, then.

WallyBantersJunkBox · 02/07/2015 19:01

Get one of those remote control vibrators and give him the controls while you wear it out to the pub/cinema/park.

Even if you finish at home it's still a nice secret naughty feeling together.

morethanpotatoprints · 02/07/2015 19:13

LineRunner

You and me both
like the comment about putting your knickers in his pocket, problem is you need to be wearing them to begin with

WallyBantersJunkBox · 02/07/2015 23:42

Half a bottle of Port helped me lose my inhibitions on New Years Eve and let my partner lose on me over the kitchen units in my very see through glass windowed kitchen last year....

Cue the midnight fireworks display 10 feet away which lit up the entire street during the act and all the faces of the revellers standing outside watching.

Most of them still say good morning.

WallyBantersJunkBox · 02/07/2015 23:44

Loose. Sorry German autocorrect.

SycamoreMum · 03/07/2015 00:28

In the back of his range rover which had tinted windows near Soho Square during the day. I 'thanked' him for a lovely lunch on valentines day.

On his balcony above a busy high street at dusk

In a cinema with two people sat two rows in front of us, and a man about 10 seats away to my bf's left. Every time he moaned I bit him which made me then laugh.

Ahhh the good times!

cruikshank · 03/07/2015 00:39

I did this kind of stuff loads when I was a horny teen with nowhere else to go, but that was more 'needs must' rather than getting a thrill out of the exhibitionist nature of it - it was either do it where someone might catch you, or not do it at all. And I was caught a fair few times, and other times people probably just turned a blind eye.

UnknownMoniker · 04/07/2015 19:29

There have been many places, but I think the most risky, was on a pool table in the back room of a pub, everyone else was doing the quiz.

But just after we finished someone then walked out of the loos and back into the quiz, we had never noticed him go in

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