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Don't like oral

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NotSleepyAtAll · 20/06/2015 21:32

I don't like oral. Is this normal? I will do it now and then but don't relish it like I did in my early 20s.

I have a good sex life but can't help feel that something is missing.

How can I like it more? Is it ok that I don't want to do it that often?

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Earthbound · 20/06/2015 21:36

Giving or receiving?

Whichever it is, you do realise it's ok not to like it don't you? If you don't like it then don't do it. It really is that simple.

Anon15 · 20/06/2015 21:38

Absolutely acceptable to not like it Smile

AnyFucker · 20/06/2015 21:40

You don't have to give or receive anything you don't want to

nothing wrong with that

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NotSleepyAtAll · 20/06/2015 22:45

Ok, thanks. I guess I feel like it's such a normal part of sex that why wouldn't I.

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queencori · 20/06/2015 22:46

use flavoured lube

Ledkr · 20/06/2015 22:53

Well it's not my favourite pastime but I do it as part of the pleasure giving excercise that sex is.
I would however, never do anything I really hated.

goodasitgets · 20/06/2015 22:55

I like giving, hate receiving. Never been a problem, I just tell partner I don't enjoy it

textfan · 21/06/2015 03:02

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NotSleepyAtAll · 21/06/2015 08:06

-- TMI Warning --

I don't mind if it's 'fresh from the shower sex' but 'sex after a long day at work' just turns my stomach, giving or receiving.

I think previous partners have been a little more considerate with the former, but this is a decade long marriage and standards have slipped somewhat.

Perhaps I'll work on that and see if things improve... and I'll try some flavoured lube!

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NotSleepyAtAll · 21/06/2015 08:07

Sorry didn't mean to cross out my warning!

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VernonGodLittle · 21/06/2015 17:17

So are saying that your partner is happy to receive oral if he's a bit "savoury" in the underpant area? I wouldn't enjoy it in those circumstances. I'd be a bit pissed off actually, that he cba to make the effort of 5mins in the shower before sex. Have you told him you'd prefer him to be freshly showered? (But surely he should know this anyway, being an adult)

I'm not sure flavoured lube will make it better - like masking whiffy pits with deodorant...

And you shouldn't ever have to do something sexually that "turns your stomach".

VixxFace · 21/06/2015 18:01

Always a shower before oral sex (giving and receiving ) , not suprised you don't enjoy it.

SpendSpendSpend · 21/06/2015 18:16

I really like oral both giving and receiving.

However i would not go near a willy that has not been washed within half hour of me going near it. I also wont allow dh to do oral on me unless i ve washed within half hour.

SpendSpendSpend · 21/06/2015 18:17

Also dh get me to smell his willy when its been washed if oral is on the cards. If its not up to my standards he washes it again no problem

blahblahblah72 · 21/06/2015 19:22

SpendSpendSpend I agree with you completely but the fact that you smell it has made me nearly choke laughing!!

AnyFucker · 21/06/2015 19:59

did we need to know that ? really?

amothersplaceisinthewrong · 21/06/2015 20:01

Nothing wrong with not liking it,. DH knows he has to be superclean, prefereably with mouthwash on his knob..... (which he does and has done for decades!)

CaptainAnkles · 21/06/2015 20:03

Wait, what?, mouthwash on a knob?Is that a thing nowadays? Don't most people just make sure they're clean before they get up to anything? It's just good manners.

MistressMerryWeather · 21/06/2015 20:04

Just don't do it if you don't want too.

Would it be a big deal if you said no, or would your DP get huffy?

Ledkr · 21/06/2015 20:35

Mouthwash??!!!

I'm getting old I really am Shock

MistressMerryWeather · 21/06/2015 20:40

Doesn't it... Ya' know, burn?

crispandfruity · 21/06/2015 21:43

What about spontaneity? My libido would shrivel if my DH said ' here's your half hour warning, I've just mouthwashed me knob'

ScrambledEggAndToast · 21/06/2015 21:47

Mouthwash on his knob!! GrinGrin Haha, that's a joke, right??!!

MistressMerryWeather · 21/06/2015 22:30

Crispandfruity :o.

'I'm minty fresh bey-beh'

Noooo...

flatbellyfella · 22/06/2015 16:56

Now we need to know what brand of mouthwash has the widest opening, for dick dipping. Wink

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