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London Oratory complete mobile phone ban even on long commutes

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Goldie1990 · 01/10/2026 13:40

Interested to hear from any current parents - how can there not be an outcry about this? With an intentionally pan-London intake where many commutes easily exceed an hour, it's the last school that should have this policy. Yet it's one of only a tiny number I can find that doesn't even permit brick phones - and it's deliberately extended to the entire school journey, making it an offense to have so much as a Nokia on hand during a transport emergency.

The head's rationale at the open evening was that there is far more danger on a smartphone these days than there is for an 11-year old crossing London by themselves. While that argument may be debatable, it breaks down completely when applied to brick phones. New guidance from DfE even recommends schools with large commuter populations to consider workarounds like handing in brick phones/keeping them switched off in their bag throughout the day. Even trackers with SOS call buttons are banned - all you're allowed is a basic tracker to see where they are (but with no means of contacting them).

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Twilightstarbright · Yesterday 12:52

Wow I sympathise OP I wouldn’t be choosing a school with this policy either. The school we like best so far is brick phones only for yr7 and 8 and they are locked away in the day. Smart phones allowed yr9 upwards but again locked away in the day.

I commuted on the tube and didn’t get a phone until yr9 and I remember using pay phones to call my mum but it was stressful and worrying and once I got my brick Nokia I felt a lot safer being able to call when I needed help- like when the pervy older man followed me and I called the police.

Goldie1990 · Yesterday 14:45

FrankieCH · Yesterday 05:27

LOS was one of the first schools to introduce a ban on mobile phones, if not the first. It’s been in place since the early 2000s - quite remarkable and very prescient.
How do I know this? Because my children were there from 2002 until the last one left in 2016. And yes, they had a long commute of an hour.
As the head will also have said at the open evening, if you don’t like the rules, don’t send your son to LOS.

He didn't actually say that. :-)

They are still oversubscribed but this year saw their lowest number of first preference applications in a decade:

2016: 309
2017: 320
2018: 320
2019: 321
2020: 332
2021: 293
2022: 235
2023: 274
2024: 239
2025: 244
2026: 226

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Knickerbockerglory75 · Yesterday 16:34

Twilightstarbright · 01/10/2026 14:25

What about a smart watch that can make calls or are they banned too?

Mine (Samsung) links to my phone via blutooth so no phone, no watch calls! Maybe you can get ones with cellular data though!

Duckin · Yesterday 17:08

My children’s school has a brick phone only policy. Neither of my kids can remember to charge them and we never remember to put credit on them. They need turning off at school and my kids never remembered to turn them on again so we haven’t bothered with phones at all for the last few years. My children do a commute on a line that goes kaput often though there are alternatives. They know what to do if they’re in trouble. Go into a shop, speak to someone ask for help. They have my number written all over their bags.

You have to understand the impact of phones in schools. Even brick phones can be a distraction. I am impressed with this policy.

There aren’t phone boxes on every corner, but personally I never called anyone on the way home from school, both parents were at work, how would I have got hold of them?! what could they have done?

Honestly look through every single risk - transport/robbery/falling over etc, ask yourself what the issue is with each. Then if you don’t feel your child can manage without a phone put them in another school.

fashionqueen0123 · Yesterday 17:12

Goldie1990 · Yesterday 12:14

I think this is what bothers me most about the policy actually. Nobody is arguing that children need access to smartphones during lessons, or even during the school day. The Government’s approach allows schools to achieve both objectives perfectly well: a genuinely phone-free school day and children having a means of communication while travelling to and from school. A device can be switched off, handed in or securely stored during school hours.

That’s why the point about SOS trackers bothers me more than the smartphone ban itself. If a parent says, “Fine, I accept that you don’t want smartphones in school, so I’ll give my 11-year-old a basic tracker/SOS device solely so that he can contact me in an emergency,” and even that is prohibited, then this is no longer simply about protecting children from social media, screen addiction, filming, messaging in lessons or other harms associated with smartphones. None of those things requires banning an emergency communication device on the journey.

And I don't really understand the “we managed before mobile phones” argument. Of course we did, but that doesn't establish that removing a safety measure available today makes children safer or more resilient. We also had payphones, staffed stations and other ways of contacting home. More importantly, being able to contact a parent and being able to solve a problem independently aren't mutually exclusive. A child can work out an alternative route during disruption and still have the ability to tell a parent where he is, or ask for help if the situation goes beyond what an 11-year-old can reasonably deal with.

Nor does the fact that nothing terrible has apparently happened prove that the precaution has no value. Emergency communication is there for unusual situations, not everyday ones. We don't normally assess a safety measure by saying that because the emergency hasn't happened yet, the measure isn't needed.

There is also an obvious proportionality point. If the concern is that a device might go off during a lesson, the direct solution is to require it to be switched off and inaccessible during the school day, with sanctions if that rule is broken. Banning the device from the child's journey altogether solves a much bigger problem than the one that actually needs solving.

So for me the distinction is quite simple: a phone-free school is one thing; requiring an 11-year-old to make a long journey across London without any means of contacting home is another. You don't have to accept the second in order to achieve the first.

Very true. Seems like a very ‘computer says no’ attitude.

IzzyLeng · Yesterday 18:16

It would put me off the school. Not just because of the potential safety issue when commuting across London but the fact that the school don’t appear to have the best interests of the children at the centre of their inflexible policy. By all means ban smart phones but not allowing brick phones seems OTT.

Im sure the school won’t care a bit if the OP sends their child there or not. Plenty more kids to take the place I guess will be their thought process. Again I dislike that sort of attitude.

Twistingoliver · Yesterday 19:36

IzzyLeng · Yesterday 18:16

It would put me off the school. Not just because of the potential safety issue when commuting across London but the fact that the school don’t appear to have the best interests of the children at the centre of their inflexible policy. By all means ban smart phones but not allowing brick phones seems OTT.

Im sure the school won’t care a bit if the OP sends their child there or not. Plenty more kids to take the place I guess will be their thought process. Again I dislike that sort of attitude.

@IzzyLengtrue, it isn’t a policy that has the child’s best interests at heart and it’s unreasonably inflexible. Our school trusts parents enough to put controls on what pupils are doing on screens in their bedrooms - screens they need in order to access the internet, school’s homework and apps…yet pupils aren’t allowed to use a brick phone on their journey home or wherever they may be going to before they reach there. The logic is so utterly utterly twisted.

KnickerlessParsons · Yesterday 19:49

cuberoot · 01/10/2026 14:46

Oh sod off we had phone boxes in every street and you know it.

I’m sure that there was a real emergency that couldn’t be worked out by your child (unlikely) someone would call you for her.
Back before mobile phones were invented we just dealt with life, and if we were late people wondered where you were until you eventually turned up.

Twistingoliver · Yesterday 20:06

@IzzyLengI dislike the “we are oversubscribed, so like it or lump it” approach. The school (MHCHS, not LOS) is concerned about the number of complaints from parents, wants more of a partnership, whilst appearing blind to what the like it or lump it approach does to that “partnership”. A school and all the parents are never going to fully align on all policies, but accept the general principles about disruption, behaviour, uniform, phone use in school and so on. The issues start and the partnership struggles when rigidity overtakes common sense, when sensible boundaries are breached, when a school implies that it’s pointless communicating as they’re always right, that the only real partnership they’re interested in is a nodding dog one. Many oversubscribed schools don’t behave this way.

ifonlytheydlisten · Yesterday 22:26

I’d be pissed off not due to safety. My DD is ND and uses her (public) bus / tram screen time and headphones to decompress on the way home. 45 min trip.
She arrives home calm. Sometimes she does her online homework too or checks school emails and catches up with friends.
it’s her time once she’s left the gates

Piglet89 · Today 00:37

Goldie1990 · Yesterday 09:35

So you're saying that demand for places itself relieves the institution of the need to justify the rule.

That is the part I'd disagree with most strongly. Oversubscription tells you that the overall package is attractive to more families than there are places. It doesn't demonstrate that every constituent policy is sensible. Nor does it mean parents shouldn't ask why a rule exists - particularly when current statutory guidance now specifically addresses the travel issue.

@Goldie1990that’s exactly what she’s saying.

It’s a matter of market forces: if you are not happy with the rule, someone else will take your place who will be happy to accept it in exchange for an excellent education for their kid.

Ponderingwindow · Today 00:41

Before cell phones there were pay phones on every corner. All children had to do was carry a coin.

my teens phone is in the bottom
of her bag in a closed pocket and it is staying there despite there being a law banning her carrying a phone to school where I live. All she has to do is not take it out of the pocket unless there is an emergency. So far, no problems.

Piglet89 · Today 00:51

Araminta1004 · 01/10/2026 20:12

I would write a strongly worded legal letter to the head and governors stating that you consider it a safeguarding risk to not allow any means of reasonable emergency communication on a long commuter route in a capital city with heightened criminal and terrorism risks and that they are on notice that if something should happen to your child as a direct result you will be pursuing them personally for negligence for a reasonably foreseeable event. And then see what happens, because none of them will want to take that responsibility anyway and they will have to record receipt of the email. In our school, a grammar, the parents would have done similar ages ago and not played ball to whacko policies for many commuting children.

@Araminta1004don’t be silly. 2 minutes with an AI agent and half an hour with counsel if they’re willing to pay will draft the Head a pretty water tight defence in response to such a letter.

As an aside, what’s a “legal letter”? A letter before claim threatening to take action in negligence? For negligence to arise, it’s not enough that harm occurs or that a foreseeable risk exists in the abstract. The question is whether the school acted reasonably in adopting a policy that balances competing welfare considerations.

The existence of a risk on a school journey does not place a legal duty on a school such that they must allow students to carry personal phones, particularly where the policy has been adopted following consideration of safeguarding, welfare and educational factors.

Also, some random grammar isn’t the same as the Oratory, one of the most sought-after schools in London.

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