Please or to access all these features

Secondary education

Connect with other parents whose children are starting secondary school on this forum.

London Oratory complete mobile phone ban even on long commutes

293 replies

Goldie1990 · 01/10/2026 13:40

Interested to hear from any current parents - how can there not be an outcry about this? With an intentionally pan-London intake where many commutes easily exceed an hour, it's the last school that should have this policy. Yet it's one of only a tiny number I can find that doesn't even permit brick phones - and it's deliberately extended to the entire school journey, making it an offense to have so much as a Nokia on hand during a transport emergency.

The head's rationale at the open evening was that there is far more danger on a smartphone these days than there is for an 11-year old crossing London by themselves. While that argument may be debatable, it breaks down completely when applied to brick phones. New guidance from DfE even recommends schools with large commuter populations to consider workarounds like handing in brick phones/keeping them switched off in their bag throughout the day. Even trackers with SOS call buttons are banned - all you're allowed is a basic tracker to see where they are (but with no means of contacting them).

OP posts:
Araminta1004 · 13/10/2026 15:53

There is no downfall @Piglet89 - usually the more sophisticated a person, the less the need to insult and the easier they tend to find explaining complex issues in a common sense way.
Pretty confident I would wipe the floor with you in real life, in about 2 seconds, but there you go.

What is the expression “kettle calling the pot” or is it “the pot calling the kettle”?

Piglet89 · 13/10/2026 16:28

Araminta1004 · 13/10/2026 15:53

There is no downfall @Piglet89 - usually the more sophisticated a person, the less the need to insult and the easier they tend to find explaining complex issues in a common sense way.
Pretty confident I would wipe the floor with you in real life, in about 2 seconds, but there you go.

What is the expression “kettle calling the pot” or is it “the pot calling the kettle”?

The expression is: “The pot calling the kettle black” - but don’t know how that applies here.

Someone who doesn’t even know guidance isn’t binding is unlikely to wipe the floor with me, but whatever keeps you happy, I guess. 👍

Araminta1004 · 13/10/2026 17:28

School governing bodies tend to follow the statutory guidance unless there are exceptional circumstances as the burden of proof is on them to substantiate deviation with evidence. But you would surely know that @Piglet89

The harrassment point and taking girls in the Sixth Form is another interesting point. I did not look too deeply into the policies but do they really not relax it for Sixth Form at all?

Piglet89 · 13/10/2026 17:41

@Araminta1004many assume departure from statutory guidance requires exceptional circumstances, but usually it doesn’t. The ordinary position is that the decision-maker must have regard to the guidance and give cogent reasons if it chooses a different approach. The legal test is not:
"Can you prove exceptional circumstances?"
but rather: “Was it lawful and rational to depart from the guidance?" Those are very different questions.
A school may be able to justify departure simply because the pupil cohort differs, safeguarding or operational considerations differ or its educational philosophy differs. None of those necessarily amounts to "exceptional circumstances".

Also, “burden of proof” isn’t the correct concept. In judicial review, courts do not generally approach matters by asking whether the public body has discharged a formal burden of proof.

Where statutory guidance applies, schools should normally follow it. However, they may depart from it if they have considered the guidance and have a rational, lawful reason for adopting a different approach. Exceptional circumstances are not usually required, although the more significant the departure, the more persuasive the justification will generally need to be.

As I said before - the more fruitful line of challenge is probably the extent to which the Oratory may over reach into students’ lives beyond the school gates by prohibiting them even to travel to and from school with a phone.

ParentOfOne · 13/10/2026 18:14

@Araminta1004 You quote:

“When designing a policy to prohibit the use of mobile phones during the school day, schools should consider the impact on children travelling to and from school, where not having a mobile phone poses a risk or the perception of a risk. Schools are encouraged to consult with parents to develop such a policy, considering ways to mitigate specific concerns and build support for this approach.”

Well, the guidance does not state that schools MUST allow kids on long commutes to carry a phone. Nor is there any explicit law stating that.
The guidance states that schools SHOULD consider the impact.

The Oratory may well say that they considered the impact, concluded that the pros outweigh the cons, that commuting to a school in Fulham is not the same as commuting to a rural school in the middle of nowhere, that they discussed it with families, and that most families support the policy.

All that is left is, then, for a family to sue the school, in the hope that a judge will agree with them and disagree with the school.

I do not have a legal training, so I'd welcome it if those who do could jump in and help me understand how correct or not my understanding is, but I think that generic guidance is not worth much: only explicit guidance or explicit laws on what schools MUST do truly have teeth.

Eg it was always in the guidance that schools should have regard for the cost of uniforms etc. But only when explicit guidance that schools MUST not require more than 3-4 branded items, did that guidance finally have some teeth.

Pretty confident I would wipe the floor with you in real life, in about 2 seconds, but there you go.

When I hear this [mods, it should be clear I am quoting this, not saying this myself!!!] I think that this forum should really have a mute button.
I'd also be curious: is this a woman against another woman? Woman against man? There cannot be many contexts where a man saying this to a woman would be received well.

@Piglet89 As I said before - the more fruitful line of challenge is probably the extent to which the Oratory may over reach into students’ lives beyond the school gates by prohibiting them even to travel to and from school with a phone.

Something I wondered about Ashcroft's policy of giving you a detention if you cycle to school.

KilkennyCats · 13/10/2026 18:21

Araminta1004 · 03/10/2026 10:42

That is cute @Piglet89
Except it is one of the top London grammar schools and tops the league tables both for exams and uni entries and certainly is way more oversubscribed than the Oratory.
Why would anyone choose a school full of lemming parents and where the school does not work in partnership with the parent group to achieve the best for the kids as a whole?

Why are you so invested in slagging off the Oratory? It’s quite fascinating, from someone who allegedly wouldn’t dream of sending her child there. Or did you not get a place?
There’s a definite air of disgruntlement there.

Goldie1990 · 13/10/2026 18:21

Piglet89 · 13/10/2026 17:41

@Araminta1004many assume departure from statutory guidance requires exceptional circumstances, but usually it doesn’t. The ordinary position is that the decision-maker must have regard to the guidance and give cogent reasons if it chooses a different approach. The legal test is not:
"Can you prove exceptional circumstances?"
but rather: “Was it lawful and rational to depart from the guidance?" Those are very different questions.
A school may be able to justify departure simply because the pupil cohort differs, safeguarding or operational considerations differ or its educational philosophy differs. None of those necessarily amounts to "exceptional circumstances".

Also, “burden of proof” isn’t the correct concept. In judicial review, courts do not generally approach matters by asking whether the public body has discharged a formal burden of proof.

Where statutory guidance applies, schools should normally follow it. However, they may depart from it if they have considered the guidance and have a rational, lawful reason for adopting a different approach. Exceptional circumstances are not usually required, although the more significant the departure, the more persuasive the justification will generally need to be.

As I said before - the more fruitful line of challenge is probably the extent to which the Oratory may over reach into students’ lives beyond the school gates by prohibiting them even to travel to and from school with a phone.

Edited

Can I hire you to represent my case on that basis then? :-)

OP posts:
starsinthemaking · 13/10/2026 18:29

ParentOfOne · 13/10/2026 18:14

@Araminta1004 You quote:

“When designing a policy to prohibit the use of mobile phones during the school day, schools should consider the impact on children travelling to and from school, where not having a mobile phone poses a risk or the perception of a risk. Schools are encouraged to consult with parents to develop such a policy, considering ways to mitigate specific concerns and build support for this approach.”

Well, the guidance does not state that schools MUST allow kids on long commutes to carry a phone. Nor is there any explicit law stating that.
The guidance states that schools SHOULD consider the impact.

The Oratory may well say that they considered the impact, concluded that the pros outweigh the cons, that commuting to a school in Fulham is not the same as commuting to a rural school in the middle of nowhere, that they discussed it with families, and that most families support the policy.

All that is left is, then, for a family to sue the school, in the hope that a judge will agree with them and disagree with the school.

I do not have a legal training, so I'd welcome it if those who do could jump in and help me understand how correct or not my understanding is, but I think that generic guidance is not worth much: only explicit guidance or explicit laws on what schools MUST do truly have teeth.

Eg it was always in the guidance that schools should have regard for the cost of uniforms etc. But only when explicit guidance that schools MUST not require more than 3-4 branded items, did that guidance finally have some teeth.

Pretty confident I would wipe the floor with you in real life, in about 2 seconds, but there you go.

When I hear this [mods, it should be clear I am quoting this, not saying this myself!!!] I think that this forum should really have a mute button.
I'd also be curious: is this a woman against another woman? Woman against man? There cannot be many contexts where a man saying this to a woman would be received well.

@Piglet89 As I said before - the more fruitful line of challenge is probably the extent to which the Oratory may over reach into students’ lives beyond the school gates by prohibiting them even to travel to and from school with a phone.

Something I wondered about Ashcroft's policy of giving you a detention if you cycle to school.

This clears it all up imo. Have people not seen school kids walking home after school all staring at their phone, no one talking to each other? It's so sad.

Araminta1004 · 13/10/2026 18:32

@ParentOfOne - if you read through the thread, @Piglet89 has been having a dig throughout the thread at me. However, is now explaining things nicely, in a coherent and common sense way.
I am female. What are you? I thought you were male? Is that right?
No @KilkennyCats - the Oratory for us was way down the CAF. DS1 got his grammar school place years ago and is in tech now, award winning and in mid 20s so years ago.
Anyone mentioned Euan Blair yet? Rather ironic as didn’t he make it biggish in a tech related education industry?

KilkennyCats · 13/10/2026 18:36

Award winning…. You just can’t help yourself, can you? 😁

Piglet89 · 13/10/2026 18:42

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Araminta1004 · 13/10/2026 18:44

Yes you were @Piglet89 - and consistently. Right from the start.
And I am a lawyer, that is a fact. I never said I was a public law lawyer.

Araminta1004 · 13/10/2026 18:46

@KilkennyCats - it is a fact. I am sorry it is so offensive to you?
Please elaborate why.

Piglet89 · 13/10/2026 18:47

@mnhqunacceptable to delete that post I made, clearly just because @Araminta1004 reported it - without actually critically examining whether it is valid and should stand.

It did not break talk guidelines. I mean, she’s CLEARLY not a lawyer. Any fool can see that.

Araminta1004 · 13/10/2026 18:47

For the avoidance of doubt, I am interested in school policy making primarily in my capacity as a governor and as a parent. Nothing wrong with that, especially when it comes to a new development. We are all allowed to discuss and question on a public forum.

Araminta1004 · 13/10/2026 18:48

I did not report anything @Piglet89!!

Piglet89 · 13/10/2026 18:48

Araminta1004 · 13/10/2026 18:44

Yes you were @Piglet89 - and consistently. Right from the start.
And I am a lawyer, that is a fact. I never said I was a public law lawyer.

Right, let’s hope you’re not a litigator either.

Sucks to be your client, when one’s supposedly qualified agent calls a letter before claim a “legal letter”.

Jesus wept.

KilkennyCats · 13/10/2026 18:52

Araminta1004 · 13/10/2026 18:46

@KilkennyCats - it is a fact. I am sorry it is so offensive to you?
Please elaborate why.

I’m not remotely offended, why on earth would I be? It’s hardly the time and place, though. Bragging about your ds winning industry awards has little relevance here, and makes you look a little foolish if you imagine it furthers your argument in any way.

Araminta1004 · 13/10/2026 18:59

@KilkennyCats - it was you who accused of disgruntlement? I said no, he is doing very well, thanks.

Araminta1004 · 13/10/2026 19:00

“Right, let’s hope you’re not a litigator either.
Sucks to be your client, when one’s supposedly qualified agent calls a letter before claim a “legal letter”.
Jesus wept.”

@Piglet89 - and you would want your clients to read that?

KilkennyCats · 13/10/2026 19:00

Glad to hear it, @Araminta1004

Piglet89 · 13/10/2026 19:01

Finally, @Araminta1004: if you really are a qualified lawyer (which I continue to doubt), but not specialising in public law - a word to the wise.

Don’t advise on an area about which you clearly know very little. Public law is a huge, nuanced, complex area where detail counts and your knowledge of it is and lack of attention to detail have been uncovered by someone with more knowledge and experience in the area than you do.

If you really are a lawyer, you would surely know it is totally irresponsible to post as you have (incorrectly) on public law’s application to the OP’s circumstances, not being expert in the area.

Leaving the thread now as arguing with you is like debating with a brick wall. No doubt you’ll be along in a minute to make sure you have the last word. 🙄

Araminta1004 · 13/10/2026 19:03

I am not providing legal advice on MN, am I! Literally, what are you talking about @Piglet89? We are discussing a phone policy, as parents do. It is new and we are discussing schools.

Araminta1004 · 13/10/2026 19:04

The new phone policy is literally entirely topical in many schools right now, for many parents and many governing bodies.

Araminta1004 · 13/10/2026 19:05

@Piglet89 - are you female or male? At least clarify that one, please?