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Year 11 - 2024/2025: And relax! Support Thread for the summer holidays.

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QueenMabby · 18/06/2025 06:29

New thread to carry us all through the summer as we transition from dealing with stressed teens to dealing with bored teens!

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waitingquietly · 19/06/2025 14:56

@QueenMabby the pollen count is very high - my DS ( and DH) both look rather shocking - my solution after trying all the options is to just let DS stay indoors - weather is due to change Sunday 🤞

labradorservant · 19/06/2025 15:02

DDs Hair is now prom ready…

Sisublondie · 19/06/2025 16:42

Oblomov25 · 19/06/2025 12:21

I can't see PM's on my phone. Only when I log on, at work on a computer. Very top right, little man/ figure, click on that , takes you to PM's.

Thank you! I’ll have a look but I do only used my phone at the moment.. I have a MacBook but not used it for a bit ( and no idea where I have put the charger! 😳

achangeofnameisasgoodasarest · 19/06/2025 17:08

And with one last A-Level exam, everyone is DONE! Three teens, six A-Levels, 8 GCSES. What a summer.

DD2 has sent me images from last night when they apparently all 'ripped up their notes in the boarding house and stomped on them, but weren't allowed to rip up their maths and english in case they needed to resit'.

Apparently this was her idea. She wanted to burn them but wasn't allowed to start a fire. Houseparent must have been delighted - the photo looks like a disaster movie.

Seems to be a bit more cheery anyway.

Hope the hayfever subsides soon for all who are suffering.

Sparticle · 19/06/2025 17:17

achangeofnameisasgoodasarest · 19/06/2025 17:08

And with one last A-Level exam, everyone is DONE! Three teens, six A-Levels, 8 GCSES. What a summer.

DD2 has sent me images from last night when they apparently all 'ripped up their notes in the boarding house and stomped on them, but weren't allowed to rip up their maths and english in case they needed to resit'.

Apparently this was her idea. She wanted to burn them but wasn't allowed to start a fire. Houseparent must have been delighted - the photo looks like a disaster movie.

Seems to be a bit more cheery anyway.

Hope the hayfever subsides soon for all who are suffering.

DS boarded too but we picked him up last night and he is moving to day (same school) for sixth form. It’s been the end of an era but just fabulous to get him home now - at least until uni.

I think he will get a shock as I’m probably going to be far stricter with him than they were at school Grin

VioletIndigoBlueGreen · 19/06/2025 17:20

Glad to hear everyone is starting to decompress after exams now and congrats @achangeofnameisasgoodasareston getting all your girls through all those exams! Today was a catch up with life admin day, so DS has been to the optician and is now en route to the dentist. I feel very guilty because apparently he needs glasses and I’d delayed his check up a few weeks because we just couldn’t fit it in alongside exams. Bad mother. He’s been blinking a lot but I thought that might be stress related. But no, it’s because he can’t really see, so that won’t have helped his revision!

Prom here tomorrow, in quite warm temperatures. I’m going to follow the advice elsewhere on the thread and sew a name tape into his jacket so it stands a chance of making it back home. Hope everyone else continues to relax and enjoy the lovely weather!

achangeofnameisasgoodasarest · 19/06/2025 17:38

@Sparticle I am jealous. I would love it if DD2 would come home for sixth form, but there is no specialist music school at even a vaguely sensible distance from here and even I can see why she wants to stay.

How nice to have your DS home!

@VioletIndigoBlueGreen well done on the 'life admin' - super impressed you're getting that done so quickly after exams. Had a very similar thing with DD1's glasses recently - but now she has them, she never wears them!

frozendaisy · 19/06/2025 19:23

We have slipped into holiday mode here!
Which is fine obviously except Ratty has a fairly full week next week but that will be good for him, Little is expressing he is "doing all the work now" in the house because he has to go to school because he's year 9.

Everyone is done now then yes?
Apart from proms in very hot weather.

Just done an online introduction video to Ratty's (conditional offer) 6th form. Oh he will love it there (he's been obviously) and I've had to phone them twice, easy calls about trains basically, we have one very sparce sketchy local train and that's it.

If anyone here know anything about GCSE Drama for a year 9 who is doing drama for fun, and to help him hold court when he becomes a barrister in a wig, I need a bit of advice. But happy to hunt down elsewhere if need be. Again I will stress he is not wanting to tread the boards on Broadway (at least not yet so StageCoach he is not)

achangeofnameisasgoodasarest · 19/06/2025 19:59

@frozendaisy i have two who have done GCSE drama- both loved it- neither natural actors or anything. Dd1 got an 8… obviously no idea re dd2. It’s a nice subject, some coursework and a doddle if you’re good at English lit. If I can help specifically let me know.

frozendaisy · 19/06/2025 20:25

achangeofnameisasgoodasarest · 19/06/2025 19:59

@frozendaisy i have two who have done GCSE drama- both loved it- neither natural actors or anything. Dd1 got an 8… obviously no idea re dd2. It’s a nice subject, some coursework and a doddle if you’re good at English lit. If I can help specifically let me know.

Little wants a book that teaches him acting techniques, bit of directing, set design. Just something that he can learn from, without it being too "theatre"
Is there such a thing?

(Little is a team player, mostly in sport, mostly in football, but he thrives learning with and from people, and whilst he is fine academically he is totally loving drama as a surprise entry in his GCSE choice life and if he is willing to read anything - and he's not a bad reader his English teacher has him in those special groups for excelling pupils for reasons known only between themselves - we are more than happy and encouraging to buy him a book he MIGHT ACTUALLY READ)

Think - strike whilst the fire is hot type thing!

frozendaisy · 19/06/2025 20:29

They have started GCSE courses this half term (year 9) and from what I can establish Drama has been dressing up in drag most of the time whilst the girls in the class direct! One of the 8 (out of 23) I think boys just wears a "tartan skirt" in class because he can. And drama teacher (favourite by far) let them do sketches from "Curious incident..." and they were allowed to ad lib a bit of baby swearing AND stage violence!

It's not really an education :-D but everyone seems to be having fun!

Sunnyafternooning · 19/06/2025 20:37

frozendaisy · 19/06/2025 19:23

We have slipped into holiday mode here!
Which is fine obviously except Ratty has a fairly full week next week but that will be good for him, Little is expressing he is "doing all the work now" in the house because he has to go to school because he's year 9.

Everyone is done now then yes?
Apart from proms in very hot weather.

Just done an online introduction video to Ratty's (conditional offer) 6th form. Oh he will love it there (he's been obviously) and I've had to phone them twice, easy calls about trains basically, we have one very sparce sketchy local train and that's it.

If anyone here know anything about GCSE Drama for a year 9 who is doing drama for fun, and to help him hold court when he becomes a barrister in a wig, I need a bit of advice. But happy to hunt down elsewhere if need be. Again I will stress he is not wanting to tread the boards on Broadway (at least not yet so StageCoach he is not)

Both my elder DC have done drama GCSE. DC1 was covid cohort and was allocated a grade. I think it was a 7, he was initially predicted an 8. He did WJEC Educas. Middle one has just sat it. School have changed syllabus now tho, can’t remember if it was edexcel or aqa off hand I'm afraid.

Both enjoyed it. DC1 did it for a level.

In terms of content…. So DC2 did one devised piece worth 40% of the grade. They are allocated groups and given a piece of stimulus and have to come up with something inspired by it. The marks come from their actual performance AND their portfolio- a written piece that follows set questions all about the rehearsal stages, how they used the stimulus, their aims.

The teacher is allowed to give feedback of one draft but that’s it. Dc found the written bit hard. It was clear, going through the mark scheme there were clearly bits of it that he wasn’t hitting. I read the first draft with teacher feedback and we spoke about it. It was clear the answers were in his head but he wasn’t spelling it out (possibly because he thought it was intuitive/obvious). After a lot of ‘but why did you do that? What were you attempting to show/why?’ Etc etc on repeat, he edited it and filled those bits in and got a much higher mark.

They then did a scripted piece… but they no longer do a whole play. Just an extract. So in his case, as there were just two of them I think it was just a ten min scene as a standalone. I thought it was a bit of a shame in a way. Back in my day 😂 we did a whole play, as a group for our scripted piece. It gave a real sense of team work and camaraderie. Thats 20%, marked externally so we don’t know how that went till results day.

And then there’s the written exam. 40% of the mark overall, on a play they’ve studied.

I hope that’s helpful!

CoffeeChocolateWine · 19/06/2025 20:37

Joining this thread! Hope your DC are enjoying their new-found freedom! No boredom setting in here yet...long lie-ins and chilling out with friends in the sunshine and having a kick-around with a football. Thursday is my day off so I was half hoping to do something with him...but not to be today. Prom is next week for my DS...can't wait to see him looking all smart in his suit!

Sunnyafternooning · 19/06/2025 20:39

frozendaisy · 19/06/2025 20:25

Little wants a book that teaches him acting techniques, bit of directing, set design. Just something that he can learn from, without it being too "theatre"
Is there such a thing?

(Little is a team player, mostly in sport, mostly in football, but he thrives learning with and from people, and whilst he is fine academically he is totally loving drama as a surprise entry in his GCSE choice life and if he is willing to read anything - and he's not a bad reader his English teacher has him in those special groups for excelling pupils for reasons known only between themselves - we are more than happy and encouraging to buy him a book he MIGHT ACTUALLY READ)

Think - strike whilst the fire is hot type thing!

Sorry, just realised that you might mean what they do in y9, vs a y9 who is thinking about doing it for gcse. Sorry if that wasn’t relevant!

frozendaisy · 19/06/2025 20:50

@Sunnyafternooning no that is all so very useful thank you
yes he is at the end of year 9 but for this half term (since end May) they have gone to GCSE timetable

so it’s one of his gcse options and they have started sort of, gently the gcse course.
it’s all still in all their subjects very fluffy gentle, slow introduction at the moment

Sunnyafternooning · 19/06/2025 20:58

frozendaisy · 19/06/2025 20:50

@Sunnyafternooning no that is all so very useful thank you
yes he is at the end of year 9 but for this half term (since end May) they have gone to GCSE timetable

so it’s one of his gcse options and they have started sort of, gently the gcse course.
it’s all still in all their subjects very fluffy gentle, slow introduction at the moment

Sorry, the ‘garden party’ camping out inder my bedroom window didn’t actually sleep AT ALL last night, so I had to go down multiple times between 2-5 to tell them their volume was getting louder and louder. I am sleep deprived and not with it!!

To be honest, I’m not really sure what they did in y10! 😂 He seemed to have a nice time! But the stuff they were marked on only seemed to happen in y11.

The one thing I would suggest is you absolutely read through the draft portfolio to try and spell out the teachers feedback (which may come across as a bit cryptic if you’re 15!). I didn’t do it with DC1, and he dropped a lot of marks because he was adamant it was in hand and wouldn’t let us read it. Certainly with DC2, when he was trying to decipher it, he seemed to be of the opinion, ‘but that’s obvious so it’s a waste of my word count to spell it out!’. Nope! We made him check it against the mark scheme and ensure he was hitting every point. I’m hoping he remembered to ‘spell out the obvious’ in the exam.

Vivienne1000 · 19/06/2025 20:58

I think all the kids at our school have hit the outdoor pool and lakes. They are going to have the best Summer ever.

Libre2 · 20/06/2025 00:02

Oblomov25 · 18/06/2025 10:56

@Libre2
How is your ds doing now?

I often find my blood sugars have a rise, post a dramatic event. I wouldn't be surprised if he had elevated higher blood sugars for say the next week, after the stress of holding it all together for the last 5 weeks?

Bless you for remembering. We went away for a night on Monday and he had shocking lows but that seems to be normal for hot weather for him. We haven’t hit 70 percent in range for weeks and weeks despite being HCL so we’ll see how it goes in the next few weeks.

He finally had the behaviour meltdown I have been anticipating all the way through! He is absolutely knackered still.

Libre2 · 20/06/2025 00:09

Sisublondie · 18/06/2025 13:26

..@Oblomov25and @Libre2, this reminds me of something I wanted to say to you both ( and other Diabetics/with Diabetic DC et al., .., I don’t really have any experience, or, I’ll be honest, knowledge of Type 1 (or 2) at all, other than my flatmate at Unis BF had it and we’d sometimes swing by his on the way back from a club, if he’d forgotten his insulin…

Anyway, during the GCSE’s I was at work and, at lunch I usually stay at my desk ( with my Times… very old school and now expensive vice to have! (I get it delivered)), but it was really warm and my colleague suggested walking down to the river to eat….. we did, had a lovely time, good chat and walked back. I had not noticed her inject herself while we were sat down and did not know she was diagnosed a couple of years ago..

We were walking back inside to our office and she started to mumble and tried to tell me what was happening…… but I had no idea what was wrong, long story, which I’m sure you both, sadly, have great experience of, she wasn’t well…but she said afterwards that she had calculated everything she ate, but whether it was the brief warmth, or wherever, she went into a “hypo” (oh, this is really embarrassing to say, or a “ hyper”, I’m still not sure which?) and it took her quite a while to recover.

My point is, I hold you, @Libre2‘s DS, and ALL people who have to organise and regulate their food/ drink intake daily in such AWE….. I don’t think anyone who has no experience of Diabetes has the faintest idea of what you guys go through. And, @Libre2, I have often thought of parents of DC with Diabetes over DS school years. He has Epilepsy, different seizures, including Tonic - Clonic ( “ Grand Mal”, iback in the day 🙄!), and had Buccolam Midazolam as an emergency drug to be administered if a seizure had lasted more than 5 minutes ( as well as calling 999), DS Specialist Epilepsy Nurse went to his (tiny village) school to train the staff how to administer it…, But! They would “ misplace” the Controlled Drug from the locked cabinet, didn’t give an air they realised the importance, but the low point (which was what cemented how scary it must be, being a parent of a diabetic DC), was when they were going on a school trip.”, and I checked they had his Emergency meds, “ Yep, of course!”, his teacher said “ , so you just take the cap off the syringe …..💉.. and jab it in his thigh?…..”……. “ Ummmmmm. No. No, you do NOT. That is an EPI-PEN! For Allergies. He has EPI-epsy, and a drug that is injected into the buccolam inside his cheek”! ….. Sigh!

Anyway! A very longwinded way to say I’m in awe of you both, and A MASSIVE High Five to @Libre2DS, and all other DC, who had to deal with this on top of the sheer stress of the exams! 🌟🤩🌟🤩🌟🤩

Thank you @Sisublondie - it’s a lot annd nice when people recognise that - seriously. Epilepsy must be terrifying and again something massive to worry about. How does your DS cope with it?

TeenToTwenties · 20/06/2025 08:09

@frozendaisy Re Drama and whether if you are good at English Lit it helps for drama.

For English Lit you are discussing the text
For drama you are discussing everything except the text. So you discuss the staging, costumes, sound, pace, volume, accent etc and how effective they are.

HereComesYourMam · 20/06/2025 09:37

DS gets hayfever which is usually well under control with prescribed meds, but even he struggled a bit with being in a field for a gig last night - the pollen count is v high at the moment.

Name tag discreetly fixed in suit jacket pocket ahead of roasting hot prom night!

Whoooo · 20/06/2025 11:47

Dd did gcse aqa drama
Got 9s for her performance and 8 for her nea and sat 1written paper which required 2 x theatre performances to be seen in y10 and y11.
She enjoyed it but less so in the final weeks - she didn't like the text the teacher gave her group.

frozendaisy · 20/06/2025 11:52

Morning just all,
Thanks for all the drama advice, not sure he will listen at the moment it's too hot and he is still at playing with the costume box stage but will bookmark, make my own notes (so it seems I am still revising) and let him know in dribs and drabs!

Hope everyone looking forward to a summer holiday type of a weekend with absolutely no revision.

QueenMabby · 20/06/2025 11:56

Dd in for her sixth form induction day today. My baby in sixth form! 😭😭

She was most excited for the cafe. Apparently ds has told her the cookies are good! 🤣

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rosemarble · 20/06/2025 12:02

Name tag discreetly fixed in suit jacket pocket ahead of roasting hot prom night!

Ah, thanks for that - very good idea!

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