Your approach of only looking because of the VAT increase sounds extremely silly and very unlikely to be replicated up and down the country as you claim.
No, she is not the only one. This is how a lot of PS parents feel, including myself.
Over the years my PS has put up its fees due to increasing costs, but also natural jumps as you go up the years. Every time this happens, I ask the question, is it worth it? So, at 9, 11, 13K a year, I was ok with it. For 6th Form, it was £18K. It has been worth the money. I can afford the 20% for DC2. Is my PS worth an extra £3,800 a year on top of the 18K, No it’s not! Then there’s the principle of it. Everyone demonising our kids for getting a good education. The £3,800 increase is not going on bursaries, better teachers or better facilities. It’s a stealth tax on education. It’s an extra tax you are putting on my shoulders when I already pay my fair share, and some. No, I don’t want to pay it.
DC looked at state 6th and liked it. His mates are all applying. If the VAT debate hadn’t started I doubt I would’ve looked, and my DS’s friends may not be moving, prompting him to want to look too.
For me, it’s like any other big ticket item. Yes, I can afford it, but is it value for money? It has been worth it at the price we’ve paid, but at nearly 4K more, no it’s not worth it.