It might make you realise what a lot of money you've spunked on private education that was a complete waste, because you were sold the belief that it made you better and your children cleverer and your family happier
There you go, making assumptions about something you clearly know nothing about.
Both DH and I attended state schools, mine being in the middle of a very rough northern city, so I know exactly what they are all about.
Secondly, I haven’t spunked anything on private fees. It was money well spent. IMO, my DC have been really well educated. I’m not talking about getting great grades and a dead cert place at a top Uni. I’m talking about being a well rounded person with loads of interests and being taught subjects they wouldn’t have had access to in most state schools.
One of my DC’s friends did Latin, Ancient Greek and Philosophy at A’level. They want to carry this on to Uni. Why is this a threat to other DC at state? How has this student got an advantage over others? Why can’t their parents spend their money on this, instead of other things?
DC1 wanted to stay at private 6th form. As far as I am concerned it was worth every penny for him. He’s a very well educated, confident, self assured young man with integrity and great manners. He was offered a look at state 6th, and he chose to stay where he was.
DC2 has done really well at private too. He was asked to look at state 6th. He liked what he saw. It’s bigger, more sociable, and his mates are going there. He’s happy with his choice.
It didn’t make my DC cleverer. I don’t think you can mess with nature. It did make me feel better. Knowing that your kids are really well educated is a great feeling, and yes going to a great school and loving learning does of course make a student happier.
It would be interesting to hear what you spunk your money on?