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Read this an tell me you still agree with VAT on school fees

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Sally20099 · 28/07/2024 20:19

DS is 3 years from finishing private school which includes 2 years in the sixth form. DD was due to start same senior school in Sept. Both went to private prep but due to talk of VAT on fees, and certainty of Labour govt for some time, we actually investigated sending DD to state secondary school. Only one in the entire city is rated outstanding but DD has got a place so we have decided to send her there. It’s very good academically but obviously hasn’t got the facilities of the private option. Currently school fees are £19,300 per year (before VAT) for DS so we have saved a reasonable sum by going to state school with DD. DS will finish at his school and we could afford DD fees (even with VAT) so we will instead put £12k a year extra in savings for DD and then spend the rest of the savings on an extra winter holiday. We would have never looked at state schools without the VAT policy and instead we have taken the place of someone at an outstanding rated school. Im not posting to annoy anyone, I wanted those who unequivocally support this to see some of the consequences. We also know a reasonable number of children in DS year who can’t afford fees with VAT and are taking their children out of private and going into state - and taking more places at the limited good schools. Its probably no surprise that most families in private schools happen to also live in good areas, meaning catchment areas tend to work out quite well when they go state.

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paperrockscissors · 29/07/2024 01:08

I don’t know about school fees but what I do think is that later on today the chancellor is going to announce that actually there is a £20bn hole in the countries finances that apparently they knew nothing about and now they do need to increase everyone’s taxes - despite it being reported in the Guardian 2 days ago that Ed Miliband has said that Labour will honour pledge of £11.6bn in overseas climate aid.

DressOrSkirt · 29/07/2024 01:33

You have no idea who's 'place' your DD has taken, maybe it was someone wealthier than you who will now go to private school seeing as they didn't get into the only "acceptable" state one.

notbelieved · 29/07/2024 01:40

TeaOrCoffeeOrHotChocolate · 28/07/2024 23:52

Controversial opinion:

I'd be glad your child is going to state school. I hope it's the one my youngest child is going to and I hope they are in the same class. You clearly care about your child's education and we need more parents like that. There are so many parents in the area where I live that give zero fucks about their children's education and their children are badly behaved. I've done the best I can for them by going to church every week to get them in to a better school but compared to a few years ago (when my older children were starting) behaviour has gone down hill. Teachers are leaving in droves and state schools are pretty shit. I hope more parents like you take up the places (you'll be more likely to put more effort into getting your child in to a good school than the shitty parents) and it will improve teacher retention rates and my child will have a better school experience.

Obviously not so good for the children whose parents don't give a shit about them (or the parents & children that do care but have no decent schools in their area) but they usually end up with terrible ofsted, get taken over by an academy chain and loads of money pumped into them to improve it for a few years! Just a shame they don't keep up the cash flow really.

So as long as your kids are thriving in the state sector, doesn't matter about the rest?

I mean it's all just so funked up what do uou say? At least independent school parents are prepared to pay for advantage. You just want those paying parents to improve things for kids and parents you consider 'good'? Hardly supporting social mobility, are you?

Solent123 · 29/07/2024 01:58

Fredshred · 28/07/2024 22:31

Exactly this. Come on, you don’t think we are so stupid as to believe you are sending your kid to private school as a favour for the rest of us. Or do you… and we should tip our hats to you mi lud…..

There are over 1000 kids applying every year for our local Grammar school, for about 150 places, its probably the state school with the highest results in the country - but none of the local state primary schools encourage their children to apply or prepare them.

I'd like to understand why that it is

CurlewKate · 29/07/2024 03:28

@paperrockscissors "despite it being reported in the Guardian 2 days ago that Ed Miliband has said that Labour will honour pledge of £11.6bn in overseas climate aid."

Shocking to be wasting money on overseas climate aid. We should be focussing on the UK climate....

Bournetilly · 29/07/2024 03:35

Your DD has got the better deal. How will your son feel about her having so much more than him in savings? I know he will have had more spent on school fees but at that age they are unlikely to see it that way.

VashtaNerada · 29/07/2024 04:10

Of course VAT for private schools is the right thing to do. Segregating children by wealth is a horrible thing to do anyway, children should mix with everyone in their community.

Zippyy · 29/07/2024 04:15

@Solent123 because they don't wish to expend so much energy cramming for a test that sees the majority of children written off as failures at age 10?

CurlewKate · 29/07/2024 04:53

@Solent123 "but none of the local state primary schools encourage their children to apply or prepare them.

I'd like to understand why that it is"
Because grammar school tests are supposed to be "untutorable" (yeah,right)
Because primary schools do not have the time or the resources for such a niche activity.

4timesthefun · 29/07/2024 05:57

VAT question aside, I think your choices are definitely increasing the probability that both your children will be sitting in a therapists office in 10 years time, trying to process their resentment of the other and the unequal treatment they feel they have received. If this situation is real, I’d say you have absolutely thrown the cat amongst the family dynamics pigeons to make a point:

TealSapphire · 29/07/2024 06:48

So your DD gets an extra 100k more than her brother? Sounds fair!

Where I live you wouldn't be taking a place from another child. Any child in the area qualifies for a spot. Is that how it works in the UK?

Moglet4 · 29/07/2024 06:57

Solent123 · 29/07/2024 01:58

There are over 1000 kids applying every year for our local Grammar school, for about 150 places, its probably the state school with the highest results in the country - but none of the local state primary schools encourage their children to apply or prepare them.

I'd like to understand why that it is

Well, the highest performing is QE and it has no catchment (though it’s a lot more than 1000 kids and it’s for just over 180 places). They probably don’t think it’s worth their time when people can apply from anywhere in the country and there is such a huge choice of other great schools in the area. If you’re not talking about QE then that’s obviously different. In my area, some of the state schools do prep for the grammar exams for the super selectives, but not all and even the ones that do make a judgement in about year 4 of who they think stand a chance and only prep them.

TeenToTwenties · 29/07/2024 07:00

TealSapphire · 29/07/2024 06:48

So your DD gets an extra 100k more than her brother? Sounds fair!

Where I live you wouldn't be taking a place from another child. Any child in the area qualifies for a spot. Is that how it works in the UK?

It is how it works in Scotland but not England.
In England you place 3-6 schools in order of preference, and then everyone who applies is ordered against admission criteria, and they allocate schools. Admission criteria are roughly looked after children, living nearby, siblings, living far away, though there are multiple variations on that.

Moglet4 · 29/07/2024 07:02

Dorisbonson · 28/07/2024 23:51

So your plan to improve education is to get the Labour government to force Tory voting parents to improve state schools through parental interest? You are effectively saying you don't trust labour to improve schools and think Tory parents should improve them?

I've got news for you. It doesn't work like that. If you want to improve your school ask questions (perhaps become a governor) - examples of questions might be - 1) Why the discipline isnt better 2) Why the kids are doing 50% of the hours of homework done at a grammar or private school?

How does removing and reducing choice from education help parents hold schools to account for failing their kids? It just gives more power to shit schools to fail children.

Why on Earth do you assume that private parents are Tory voters? Most I know voted for a third party because they couldn’t support the VAT but would rather have grated their own faces than vote Tory!

listsandbudgets · 29/07/2024 07:05

Starlightstarbright3 · 28/07/2024 20:32

Yep I agree with Vat .. Parents like you are likely to push for better state education .

hth

What about parents like you? What have you personally done to push fir better state education?

Are you really waiting for parents like the OP to turn up and do it for you? Indifference of parents of DCs in state school is the worst justification I've heard for VAT yet..

StoatofDisarray · 29/07/2024 07:10

I still agree with VAT on school fees.

thefireplace · 29/07/2024 07:13

CurlewKate · 29/07/2024 03:28

@paperrockscissors "despite it being reported in the Guardian 2 days ago that Ed Miliband has said that Labour will honour pledge of £11.6bn in overseas climate aid."

Shocking to be wasting money on overseas climate aid. We should be focussing on the UK climate....

What the heck has foreign aid got to do with anything?

No, the OP,s crying hasn't made me change my opinion on VAT, we need the money for state education, not giving it to people who have plenty but plead poverty.

Hayliebells · 29/07/2024 07:14

I thought you were going to come up with something more persuasive OP. Your post doesn't live up to your title at all.

PaleSunshineOfHope · 29/07/2024 07:18

I agree with the policy, but if I'm ever in doubt, all I will need to do is come back and re-read your entitled whinge.

Pipsquiggle · 29/07/2024 07:24

I was hoping that the government uses the money gained from taxing private schools strategically.
In deprived areas / poor school areas, implementing good leadership and doing something like 'the London effect' elsewhere in the country.

Therefore your excellent 'outstanding' state school may get little to no extra funding yet a failing school in a deprived area would get more - which would hopefully turn it around and have a positive effect on hundreds of pupils.

Why are you giving your DD only 66% of what you spent on your DS's education and trying to justify the extra holiday?

5128gap · 29/07/2024 07:30

listsandbudgets · 29/07/2024 07:05

What about parents like you? What have you personally done to push fir better state education?

Are you really waiting for parents like the OP to turn up and do it for you? Indifference of parents of DCs in state school is the worst justification I've heard for VAT yet..

Its an excellent argument. Its very disingenuous to pretend that the voices of some demographics are not louder and more influential than others. Wealth and privilege are typically accompanied by confidence and a sense of entitlement that is found far less amongst those used to having their needs and views ignored because they lack power and influence in life. For this reason the former are more likely to create a fuss when things are below the required standard than those who are accustomed to most things being less than optimum. And PP didn't say she wasn't doing anything herself. She merely pointed out that the new group of parents would be helpful in that.

Tiredalwaystired · 29/07/2024 07:30

Airbrb · 28/07/2024 21:57

She’s is not expecting any sympathy.

she's explaining how she’s changed her behaviour as a result of the policy - and she’s making 2 main points:

  1. that her dd has pushed another child off the bottom of the list for the state school she got into - and that if this happens on a larger scale, many children will be pushed off the bottom of the list for their preferred state school

  2. that she will save more than 100k and use it for an extra holiday and to give as a gift to her dd - thereby giving her dd a huge leg up in life

so overall, OP’s point is that the policy isn’t hurting her as a rich person, but is hurting others (such as the pushed out child). And Starmer is not having any VAT money from her dd’s education.

Nobody is pushing ANYONE out of a place. Every child is free to take up a state school place if they choose it.

We could happily have afforded private but didn’t want to because we don’t believe in the private school system. I don’t see us as stealing the place of another child due to that decision. It’s no different.

BarHumbugs · 29/07/2024 07:31

Sally20099 · 28/07/2024 21:05

Correct - someone has lost out because of this policy but not the people who were targeted (ie private school child). You think they will manage to rectify the entire school system on £1.6b?!?

Have they though? With more applications the LA and school often decide to expand the intake, sometimes permanently resulting in MORE places. A school near me did it about 10 years ago, went from a 7 form entry to a 10.

TeenToTwenties · 29/07/2024 07:42

I think this is a pointless discussion, as I think Labour's position is more long term and idealogical than short term financial.

They want to end some educational disparity by getting most/all independent schools to close. They are choosing to kick start this by charging VAT. They hope this will decrease demand for private and less well endowed schools will close.

People will use state plus tutoring of course, and move into catchment for perceived better schools.

Zonder · 29/07/2024 07:47

Solent123 · 29/07/2024 01:58

There are over 1000 kids applying every year for our local Grammar school, for about 150 places, its probably the state school with the highest results in the country - but none of the local state primary schools encourage their children to apply or prepare them.

I'd like to understand why that it is

Because it's a primary school's job to educate their children broadly, not to get them cramming for one particular school exam.

Because it isn't up to primary schools to influence where children go to secondary.

Because the secondary school you're talking about clearly has enough children applying to it.

HTH.

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