Thanks a lot @minipie and @Bewler
im happy we have come to the end of this nerve wracking process . its been crazy.
Now its time to go through the painful process of deciding for a school.we have two scholarship offers (including bursary) from Sydenham high and Croydon high. and an offer (almost full bursary) from JAGS.
i was kind of slightly hoping for a rejection from JAGS so it makes choosing earlier as we were likely going for SHS. But now im confused as my DD will now change her mind to JAGS.
SHS is closer to us and I know JAGS is quite at the top of those two but I don't want to go for the hype of JAGS as they are extremely competitive and my daughter is not sporty at all and I don't want her feeling left out