Thanks very much for your replies - I was not expecting that many! Will try to reply to all individually -
Firstly, yes RSPE is Religion, Philosophy and Ethics 🙂. That's the only one she's firmly set on, so that's some Humanities there.
Sheila , thanks for reminding me that the main thing is not to rule things out and that it's not that important in the grand scheme of things.
ShadowPuppets, well done on the Italian. I am hoping she'll do that and pick one later if she wants to. It's just that I have a bad case of menopausal brain and see no learning after around 45 (I so hope it passes because it's bloody sad and scary!) So I tend to agreee with Checkcheck that it's best for a language to catch them when young.
NappyValley, thanks! Yes, a creative subject is the way to go.
daffodil, we're just a bit worried that her ASC will make it more stressful than fun.
AnotherSpare, thanks. She's bilingual (English-Spanish), which is why German seems a more useful choice. And thanks for reminding me not to look too far ahead! It's hard when they ask your opinion though...
Fenghuang, thanks, not aggressive at all! I am aware of the excess in the usage of 'I', and fully agree it's her life! DD has asked for my input and she suffers from decision paralysis, so I'm trying to justify my advice to her. Just thinking about having to choose has had her in a spin for months. And thanks for reminding me that it's not that important in the grand scheme of things!
Spooky, thanks, but I do think it makes a difference if you speak the language, even a bit. Huge.
Converseandjeans and ElvenDreamer, thank you. You articulate exactly my thoughts around German! I think it's much more useful professionally than most people think.
Thanks DalaiLlama, school said the same to us. What she enjoys should come first.
Thanks Dobby, she is not sure at all on what to do later, so choosing what she likes and is good at has been our advice too so far.
Chiasmi thanks for the perspective on RS being as valuable as History!
treesures thanks for your experience, that's interesting. DH is worried that picking up history at A level will be harder (he's quite the history buff but DD likes it too)
So to summarise - many of you think that History is useful for the analysis and transferable skills point of view. But so is RS, so maybe not that crucial. On the language side, some of you have experience of German being the more useful one. That letting DD do what she actually loves is important, as is doing something creative 'for fun'.
Will not show DD this thread as she'd be overwhelmed but will summarise for her (and DH!)
Thanks everyone. Any other opiniones welcome!