"It really annoys me that my child's education is disrupted by the kids acting big and cool. The kids themselves are fed up with it, but often laugh along with it or face being picked on. The disruptive kids need to be taken out of the class every time they display any of this behaviour, instead of that being the case in some lessons and others not.
These kids often behave in classes with strict teachers. They do their homework for the strict teachers which shows they can behave and conform to behaviours when it is expected."
I disagree. Often, disruptive behaviour is masking behaviour for an inability to cope with the demands of am environment. I'm not saying that every child who disrupts has SEN. Some children will disrupt because they are disengaged, others because they crave attention and don't know how to get it positively, and yes, some because they want their mates to laugh. But the reason they don't do it for strict teachers is that almost without exception, strict teachers are consistent teachers, with clear, unmoving boundaries, albeit with reasonable adjustments that are also clear and unmoving, and structures in class that the pupils can learn to work within. Those boundaries make the pupils feel secure and safe, so that they know that they can push against them, but if they cross them, they know what will happen.
In DD1's school, every class has the same discipline structure. She takes a book with her to each class. In each lesson she hands the book in, and at the end of the class she gets a stamp in her book:
-A green stamp means that she has met the expectations of the school behaviour standards in class. This is the general expectation in every lesson.
-A purple stamp means she has exceeded the school behaviour standards in that lesson, and purple stamps accumulate towards a £5 gift voucher to spend in the school reward shop. Purple stamps are awarded for particularly hard work, overcoming barriers to learning and attending to their work (eg. Moving past an argument and getting back to class work without further fuss for the rest of the lesson without disrupting class), working hard to answer a particularly challenging question that is beyond their usual level of performance, being particularly kind or thoughtful, etc.
-A red stamp means she has persistently, despite 2 clear warnings about her behaviour, broken the rules in class, and will have 10 minutes of detention away from the Friday afternoon fun activities session. This would be reserved for clear, deliberate rule breaking. e.g. Repeated swearing at another pupil, hitting/hurting a pupil, defiance of a teacher's instructions, refusing to do work, storming out of class and refusing to return, etc.
Then they have after school and Saturday detentions for hard core offenders.