I have been feeling irrationally hopeful about R-Day for the past couple of weeks. I think it's because thinking realistically is so unpleasant. I did try it for a few minutes but I came over all trembly.
DD has no job so is just swanning around at the moment. Her 18th was the weekend before last so she's had quite a nice time of it. Gifts still to be 'cashed in' include tea for two at the Waldorf (surely I'm first in line to accompany her to that?) and tickets to Swan Lake. Well, one ticket; her friend has very sensibly kept the other.
We have had the plan B conversation many times over the past few months. I know DD really really wants her firm, but I think (and I'm sure she agrees, or will when she's dried her tears) that her insurance is a very decent option. The trouble starts if it comes to Clearing; she has been adamant all along that she won't do it and would rather try again next year to improve her grades. I agree with her reasoning, but we haven't worked out the nitty gritty of HOW and WHERE she will improve her grades.
So it's heads in the sand here, and strictly no uni preparations until after the 13th. Then I can immerse myself in the relative merits of different mattress toppers or sixth-form colleges as appropriate.
We've been told by the school that results will be sent electronically to students at 6.30am. Senior staff will be available in school from 7am for advice or help (presumably for those students who haven't made their offer, or aren't sure because Track hasn't updated). Students are to come in between 10am and 10.30am to collect hard copies of their results.
9 days...