Talkin
The school my ds1 attended didn't reflect us as parents. I don't think so, unless I am not understanding what you mean.
We are typical working class, but have this cultural capital that has been referred to.
The school our ds1 attended was the worst sink estate school imaginable. There were 6 including ds who came from the same primary and missed out on their 3 choices due to them being full before they reached us.
Not wishing to sound snobby but the children who attended had been failed by their parents and there were many criminals.
Every morning he was searched, sniffed by dogs and there was a police presence in the school throughout his secondary education.
It had a super head commissioned to turn the school around, which she did for his first 2 years there. She was moved on and once again the school deteriorated.
He managed through self motivation to gain an education of 10 GCSE's at C grades. I don't think he would have achieved much higher grades at another school but the environment was dreadful.
This school was a good 5 miles from where we live and culturally my ds and the other 5 children had nothing in common with these children.
The crime in the area is usually associated with past students of this school, some are dead from drugs, most girls left due to pregnancy, before y11.
Any of the lads who survived the years after leaving school joined the forces, or are complete drop outs, which leaves ds and his friends from primary, who aren't exactly high flyers but are working and the one girl has only had a baby recently at 23 after working since leaving at 16.